What is Love?

Every people must be ever talked and felt love on their life, so do I. This word 'Love' is flying now in my mind after reading a friend's note on a social networking note. Actually I don't know how is it, but I ever felt taste and feeling something I thought love with a man. Slowly, that feeling was covering me when it came to my teenager life, my puberty exactly. I couldn't sleep, eat, study and do everthing normally as well. It borthered me a lot and wasted my heart to feel it. I kept muting and saved it in my heart without telling anybody even my closest friend. I remembered a verse in Al-Qur'an:

"Lets those who find not the wherewithal for marriage keep them-selves chaste, until Alloh gives them means out of His Grace......." (An-Noor [24]: 33)

Well, that was a symptom of  human maturity process, and it couldn't be refused in everyone's life. The only way we must do is responding it prudently and do not be lulled with a taste you don't know, why do I say this way? because many people on that age do not understand that feeling and respond it as love that must know by a person that they feel 'that feeling' to, while what they are feeling isn't love, but only a feeling of sympathy in something different views on opposite sex they feel 'that feeling' to. And unfortunately it   has led them astray.

Why astray? Because, by that feeling they will emotionally expect their feelings also felt by their loved ones. After that! when their loved ones feel so or respon their love then there would be a relationship status rezcognized as allowance affair to do everthing freely each other such as kissing, necking, even marital relationship or making love that only allowed to do by marital couple. Astaghfirulloh..... Now, this is usual and can be found everwhere, and they say that 'It is our right'. Then, what differs us and animals??

O Alloh, don't let me astray by something I don't know..... Wal'iyadzubillah,
Ya Muqollibal Quluub tsabit qolbuna 'alaa dinik.