tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10951933324120705402024-03-06T04:54:40.421+07:00Asiyah and Moeslem WomenSimplicity of my own life to be known by world ~Asiyah bent Zainy ( Rini Rahayu)http://www.blogger.com/profile/13341567584093405272noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1095193332412070540.post-7684270864859696872011-01-23T18:08:00.001+07:002011-01-23T18:30:30.340+07:00Mengapa Dia tidak Mau menggunakan Hijab?<div style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px; text-align: justify;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgRzKQT86F_iUsj4CU3IqqywiRD5_GQD3xcX9fxyhhHT-Ic9IidF1Ii3sym_Mu1L8ag9cjk48wPi29jotCGs1UxVNV0lugwxHcX6Swg051OII_3qeoa-0OAkVzaWb59PGqlUBA03oUJ3Y0/s1600/5015_95344008839_511678839_1879380_5596034_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="214" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgRzKQT86F_iUsj4CU3IqqywiRD5_GQD3xcX9fxyhhHT-Ic9IidF1Ii3sym_Mu1L8ag9cjk48wPi29jotCGs1UxVNV0lugwxHcX6Swg051OII_3qeoa-0OAkVzaWb59PGqlUBA03oUJ3Y0/s320/5015_95344008839_511678839_1879380_5596034_n.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Berikut merupakan dialog antara dua orang muslimah mengenai hijab, perempuan yang satunya mengenakan jilbab sedangkan yang satunya tidak. Artikel asli dari dialog ini mempergunakan bahasa Inggris, tapi AlhamduliLlah saya telah menerjemankannya ke dalam bahasa Indonesia agar mudah dipahamai oleh teman-teman insyaAlloh. Adapun yang berminat membaca artikel tersebut dalam bahasa Inggris silahkan <a href="http://asiyahandmoeslemwomen.blogspot.com/2011/01/why-she-wont-wear-hijab.html">klik link ini.</a></span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">----------------------------------------------------</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Diskusi yang dilakukan oleh A.Q. Alidost</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Sebuah percakapan untuk saudari-saudari muslimku:</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Aku sangat lelah"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Lelah kenapa?"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Orang-orang it menghakimiku."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Siapa yang mengakimimu?"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"salah satunya perempuan itu, tiap kali aku duduk dengannya, dia selalu membicarakan masalah hijab."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Oh, hijab and musik! topik utama!"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Yeah! Aku mendengarkan musik tanpa hijab... haha!"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Mungkin dia hanya menasehatimu."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Aku tidak butuh nasehatnya. Aku tau agama. Apakah tidak bisa dia memikirkan urusannya sendiri?"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Sepertinya kamu salah paham. Dia hanya ingin berbuat baik."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Jangan perdulikan urusanku, itulah perbuatan yang baik"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Tetapi itu adalah tugasnya untuk memperingatkanmu untuk melakukan hal yang baik."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Percayalah padaku. Itu bukanlah peringatan. Dan apa maksudmu dengan 'hal yang baik'?"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Hmm, baiklah. Memakai jilbab, itulah hal yang baik."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Siapa yang bilang?"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Al-Qur'an yang mengatakannya, benar kan?"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Ya, dia membacakan suatu perkataan untukku."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Dia membacakan surat an-Nuur, dan beberapa surat di al-Qur'an."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Ya, tapi itu bukanlah dosa besar. Menolong orang lain dan sholat itu lebih penting."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Benar. Akan tetapi hal-hal besar dimulai dari hal kecil."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Poin yang bagus, tetapi apa yang kamu pakai itu tidak penting. Hal yang terpenting adalah memiliki hati yang baik."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Apa yang kamu pakai tidak baik?"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Yah, itulah yang aku katakan."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Lalu mengapa kamu habiskan waktu berjam-jam setiap pagi untuk berdandan?"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Apa maksudmu?"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Engkau menghabiskan banyak uang untuk membeli kosmetik, belum lagi menyebutkan waktu yang engkau habiskan untuk membenahi rambutmu dan untuk melakukan diet."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Terus?"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Terus, penampilanmu adalah hal yang penting?."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Tidak. Aku bilang memakai jilbab itu tidak penting dalam agama."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"kalau memang hal tersebut bukanlah hal yang penting dalam agama, Kenapa di Al-Qur'an disebutkan untuk mengenakannya?"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Kamu tahu aku tidak bisa mengikuti semua yang ada di dalam al-Qur'an."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Maksudmu setelah Tuhan memberitahumu untuk melakukan sesuatu, kemudia kamu tidak mematuhinya adalah hal yang benar?"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Ya, Tuhan Maha Pengampun."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Tuhan Maha Pengampun bagi siapapun yang bertaubat dan tidak mengulangi kesalahan-kesalahannya."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Siapa bilang?"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Kitab yang sama yang memerintahkanmu untuk berhijab."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Tetapi aku tidak suka hijab, Hijab membatasi kebebasanku."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Akan tetapi pelembab, lipstik, maskara dan dan kosmetik-kosmetik lainnya itu membuatmu merasa bebas??!<br />
Lalu apa pengertian kebebasan bagimu?"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Kebebasan adalah melakukan apapun yang kamu inginkan."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Bukan. Kebebasan adalah melakukan hal yang benar, bukannya melakukan segala sesuatu sekehendak hati kita."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Lihat! Aku telah menemukan banyak orang yang tidak berjilbab tetapi mereka adalah orang yang baik, dan aku juga menemukan banyak orang yang memakai jilbab tetapi mereka adalah orang yang buruk."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Terus kenapa? Ada banyak orang yang baik menurutmu tetapi mereka adalah pemabuk.Apakah kita harus menjadi pemabuk? pernyataan yang bodoh."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Aku tidak mau menjadi seorang ekstrimis dan fanatik. Aku merasa baik-baik saja tanpa hijab."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Berarti kamu adalah fanatik kebebasan. Ekstrimis dalam penentangan terhadap Alloh."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Kamu tidak mengerti, jika aku memakai hijab, siapa yang mau menikahiku?!"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Menurutmu semua orang yang berhijab itu tidak menikah?!"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Baiklah! Lalu seandainya jika aku menikah nanti dan suamiku tidak menyukainya bagaimana? Dan memintaku untuk melepaskannya?"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Bagaimana jika seandainya suamimu mengajakmu untuk pergi merampok bank?!"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Hal itu tidak benar, merampok bank adalah tindakan kriminal."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Apakah tidak mematuhi tuhanmu bukanlah kriminal?"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Tetapi siapa yang akan mempekerjakan aku?"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Perusahaan yang menghargai hak orang."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Tidak lagi setelah kejadian 9-11"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Ya. setelah kejadian 9-11. Apakah engkau tahu mengenai Hanan yang masuk ke sekolah med?<br />
Dan yang lainnya, siapa namanya, gadis yang selalu mengenakan hijab... ummm..."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Yasmin?"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Ya. Yasmin. Dia baru saja menyelesaikan program MBA-nya dan sekarang magang di GE."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Mengapa kamu mempermasalahkan agama hanya pada lembaran pakaian?"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Mengapa kamu mempermasalahkan masalah kewanitaan hanya pada sepatu hak tinggi dan warna lipstik?"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Engkau tidak menjawab pertanyaanku."</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px;">"Tetapi aku sudah menjawabnya. Hijab bukan hanya lembaran pakaian.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif; font-size: x-small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; line-height: 20px;"> </span>Ini adalah kepatuhan pada A<span class="hps" style="color: #741b47; line-height: 20px;" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">llah</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px;"> </span></span><span class="hps" style="color: #741b47; line-height: 20px;" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">dalam</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px;"> </span></span><span class="hps" style="color: #741b47; line-height: 20px;" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">lingkungan yang sulit</span><span style="color: #741b47; line-height: 20px;" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px;"> </span></span><span class="hps" style="color: #741b47; line-height: 20px;" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">Ini adalah</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px;"> </span></span><span class="hps" style="color: #741b47; line-height: 20px;" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">keberanian</span><span style="color: #741b47; line-height: 20px;" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">,</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px;"> </span></span><span class="hps" style="color: #741b47; line-height: 20px;" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">iman</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px;"> </span></span><span class="hps" style="color: #741b47; line-height: 20px;" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">dalam </span><span class="hps" style="color: #741b47; line-height: 20px;" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">tindakan</span><span style="color: #741b47; line-height: 20px;" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">,</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px;"> </span></span><span class="hps" style="color: #741b47; line-height: 20px;" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">dan bentuk</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px;"> </span></span><span class="hps" style="color: #741b47; line-height: 20px;" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">kewanitaan</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px;"> </span></span><span class="hps" style="color: #741b47; line-height: 20px;" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">sejati</span><span class="" style="color: #741b47; line-height: 20px;" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">. </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif; font-size: x-small;"><span class="hps" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">Tapi</span> <span class="hps" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">Kamu berpakain</span> <span class="hps" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">lengan</span> <span class="hps" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">pendek</span><span title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">,</span> <span class="hps" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">celana</span> <span class="hps" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">ketat</span> <span class="hps" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">...</span> <span class="hps atn" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">"</span></span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Inilah yang namanya 'fashion', kamu tinggal di gua atau apa? sebelumya, hijab ditemukan oleh laki-laki yang ingin mengendalikan wanita."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Benarkah? Aku tidak pernah tahu lelaki mengendalikan wanita dengan hijab."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Ya, seperti itulah adanya."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Bagaimana dengan wanita yang menentang suaminya untuk mengenakan hijab? Dan perempuan di Prancis yang dipaksa melepaskan hijab mereka? Bagaimana menurutmu dengan mereka?"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Yah, itu perkaranya berbeda."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Apa bedanya? wanita yang memintamu untuk mengenakan hijab... bukankah dia adalah perempuan, benar kan?"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Benar, tapi...."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Akan tetapi fashionlah yang dirancang dan dipromosikan oleh perusahaan yang didominasi oleh para lelaki, Itukah kebebasanmu? Lelaki tidak punya hak kendali untuk mengekspos wanita dan menjadikan mereka sebagai komoditas?! Berikan aku penjelasan!"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Tunggu, biar kuselesaikan dulu, aku bilang......"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Bilang apa? Apakah kamu pikir lelaki mengendalian wanita dengan jilbab?"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Ya."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Spesifiknya bagiman?"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Dengan memberitahu wanita bagaimana dan apa yang harud dipakai, dummy!"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Bukannya TV, majalah, film-film yang memberitahumu cara berpakaian, dan bagaimana untuk menjadi 'menarik'?"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Tentu saja, itulah fashion."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Bukannya itu yang disebut dengan mengendalikan? Menekanmu untuk memakai apa yang mereka ingin kamu untuk pakai?"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">[Membisu]</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Tidak hanya mengendalikanmuu, tetapi juga mengendalikan pasar."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Apa maksudmu?"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Maksudku, you are told to look skinny and anorexic like that woman on the cover of the magazine, by men who design those magazines and sell those products."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"I don't get it. What does hijab have to do with products."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"It has everything to do with that. Don't you see? Hijab is a threat to consumerism, women who spend billions of dollars to look skinny and live by standards of fashion designed by men... and then here is Islam, saying trash all that nonsense and focus on your soul, not on your looks, and do not worry what men think of your looks."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Like I don't have to buy hijab? Isn't hijab a product?"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Yes, it is. It is a product that sets you free from male-dominated consumerism."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Stop lecturing me! I WILL NOT WEAR HIJAB!</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">It is awkward, outdated, and totally not suitable for this society... Moreover, I am only 20 and too young to wear hijab!"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Fine. Say that to your Lord, when you face Him on Judgment Day."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Fine."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Fine."</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">[Silence]</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Shut up and I don't want to hear more about hijab niqab schmijab Punjab!"</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">[Silence]</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">She stared at the mirror, tired of arguing with herself all this time.</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Successful enough, she managed to shut the voices in her head, with her own opinions triumphant in victory on the matter, and a final modern decision accepted by the society - but rejected by the Faith:</span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Yes!" - to curls on the hair - "No!" - to hijab!</span></div><div class="bullet_gray" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: initial; background-image: url(http://www.islamswomen.com/includes/images/bullet_gray.gif); background-origin: initial; background-position: 0px 5px; background-repeat: no-repeat no-repeat; color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"And he (/she) is indeed a failure who corrupts it [the soul]!" <span class="smalltxt" style="font-size: 11px; font-style: normal;">[Noble Quran 91:10]</span></span></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Subhana'Allah!!!</span></div><div class="bullet_gray" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: initial; background-image: url(http://www.islamswomen.com/includes/images/bullet_gray.gif); background-origin: initial; background-position: 0px 5px; background-repeat: no-repeat no-repeat; color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Nay! You prefer the life of this world; While the hereafter is better and more lasting." <span class="smalltxt" style="font-size: 11px; font-style: normal;">[Noble Quran 87:16-17]</span></span></div><div class="bullet_gray" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: initial; background-image: url(http://www.islamswomen.com/includes/images/bullet_gray.gif); background-origin: initial; background-position: 0px 5px; background-repeat: no-repeat no-repeat; color: #741b47; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"You are the best community (Ummah) raised up for (the benefit of) humanity; enjoining what is right and forbidding what is wrong and believing in Allah." <span class="smalltxt" style="font-size: 11px; font-style: normal;">[Noble Quran 3:110]</span></span></div>Asiyah bent Zainy ( Rini Rahayu)http://www.blogger.com/profile/13341567584093405272noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1095193332412070540.post-81832919651906426382011-01-23T16:50:00.001+07:002011-01-23T16:51:42.812+07:00Why She Won't Wear Hijab!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgLZWFaOI_IB0y71RnNaWl33FMlsfhJATzdBRtZF5Rns7Zk8ts5wO4Jm7qjBCqYzIby2hMG4_Og5K8U4rzlGc6NQdPHiGbeb_WzaKOx9r_IARBtKom0IiKK28H-VNbChZkdjbTBjDUfHZ4/s1600/akhwat2.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgLZWFaOI_IB0y71RnNaWl33FMlsfhJATzdBRtZF5Rns7Zk8ts5wO4Jm7qjBCqYzIby2hMG4_Og5K8U4rzlGc6NQdPHiGbeb_WzaKOx9r_IARBtKom0IiKK28H-VNbChZkdjbTBjDUfHZ4/s320/akhwat2.jpg" width="195" /></a></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px; text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Below is a dialogue of two muslim woman, the one used veil (Hijab) while her partner did not use. I got this article from <a href="http://www.islamswomen.com/hijab/why_she_wont_wear_hijab.php">this site</a>. And I have translated it to Indonesian (Bahasa Indonesia), If you want to read it in Indonesian, just click here.</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">----------------------------------------------------</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">A Discussion by A.Q. Alidost</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">A conversation for Muslim sisters:</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"I'm so tired."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Tired of what?"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Of all these people judging me."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Who judged you?"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Like that woman, every time I sit with her, she tells me to wear hijab."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Oh, hijab and music! The mother of all topics!"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Yeah! I listen to music without hijab... haha!"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Maybe she was just giving you advice."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"I don't need her advice. I know my religion. Can't she mind her own business?"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Maybe you misunderstood. She was just being nice."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Keeping out of my business, that would be nice..."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"But it's her duty to encourage you do to good."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Trust me. That was no encouragement. And what do you mean 'good'?"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Well, wearing hijab, that would be a good thing to do."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Says who?"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"It's in the Quran, isn't it?"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Yes. She did quote me something."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"She said Surah Nur, and other places of the Quran."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Yes, but it's not a big sin anyway. Helping people and praying is more important."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"True. But big things start with small things."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"That's a good point, but what you wear is not important. What's important is to have a good healthy heart."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"What you wear is not important?"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"That's what I said."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Then why do you spend an hour every morning fixing up?"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"What do you mean?"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"You spend money on cosmetics, not to mention all the time you spend on fixing your hair and low-carb dieting."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"So?"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"So, your appearance IS important."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"No. I said wearing hijab is not an important thing in religion."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"If it's not an important thing in religion, why is it mentioned in the Noble Quran?"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"You know I can't follow all that's in Quran."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"You mean God tells you something to do, you disobey and then it's OK?"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Yes. God is forgiving."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"God is forgiving to those who repent and do not repeat their mistakes."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Says who?"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Says the same book that tells you to cover."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"But I don't like hijab, it limits my freedom."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"But the lotions, lipsticks, mascara and other cosmetics set you free?!<br />
What's your definition of freedom anyway?"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Freedom is in doing whatever you like to do."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"No. Freedom is in doing the right thing, not in doing whatever we wish to do."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Look! I've seen so many people who don't wear hijab and are nice people, and so many who wear hijab and are bad people."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"So what? There are people who are nice to you but are alcoholic. Should we all be alcoholics? You made a stupid point."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"I don't want to be an extremist or a fanatic. I'm OK the way I am without hijab."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Then you are a secular fanatic. An extremist in disobeying God."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"You don't get it, if I wear hijab, who would marry me?!"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"So all these people with hijab never get married?!"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Okay! What if I get married and my husband doesn't like it? And wants me to remove it?"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"What if your husband wants you to go out with him on a bank robbery?!"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"That's irrelevant, bank robbery is a crime."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Disobeying your Creator is not a crime?"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"But then who would hire me?"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"A company that respects people for who they are."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Not after 9-11"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Yes. After 9-11. Don't you know about Hanan who just got into med school?<br />
And the other one, what was her name, the girl who always wore a white hijab... ummm..."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Yasmin?"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Yes. Yasmin. She just finished her MBA and is now interning for GE."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Why do you reduce religion to a piece of cloth anyway?"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Why do you reduce womanhood to high heals and lipstick colors?"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"You didn't answer my question."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"In fact, I did. Hijab is not just a piece of cloth. It is obeying God in a difficult environment. It is courage, faith in action, and true womanhood.<br />
But your short sleeves, tight pants..."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"That's called 'fashion', you live in a cave or something? First of all, hijab was founded by men who wanted to control women."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Really? I did not know men could control women by hijab."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Yes. That's what it is."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"What about the women who fight their husbands to wear hijab? And women in France who are forced to remove their hijab by men? What do you say about that?"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Well, that's different."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"What difference? The woman who asked you to wear hijab... she was a woman, right?"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Right, but..."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"But fashions that are designed and promoted by male-dominated corporations, set you free? Men have no control on exposing women and using them as a commodity?! Give me a break!"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Wait, let me finish, I was saying..."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Saying what? You think that men control women by hijab?"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Yes."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Specifically how?"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"By telling women how and what to wear, dummy!"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Doesn't TV, magazines and movies tell you what to wear, and how to be 'attractive'?"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Of course, it's fashion."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Isn't that control? Pressuring you to wear what they want you to wear?"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">[Silence]</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Not just controlling you, but also controlling the market."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"What do you mean?"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"I mean, you are told to look skinny and anorexic like that woman on the cover of the magazine, by men who design those magazines and sell those products."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"I don't get it. What does hijab have to do with products."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"It has everything to do with that. Don't you see? Hijab is a threat to consumerism, women who spend billions of dollars to look skinny and live by standards of fashion designed by men... and then here is Islam, saying trash all that nonsense and focus on your soul, not on your looks, and do not worry what men think of your looks."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Like I don't have to buy hijab? Isn't hijab a product?"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Yes, it is. It is a product that sets you free from male-dominated consumerism."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Stop lecturing me! I WILL NOT WEAR HIJAB!</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">It is awkward, outdated, and totally not suitable for this society... Moreover, I am only 20 and too young to wear hijab!"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Fine. Say that to your Lord, when you face Him on Judgment Day."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Fine."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Fine."</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">[Silence]</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Shut up and I don't want to hear more about hijab niqab schmijab Punjab!"</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">[Silence]</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">She stared at the mirror, tired of arguing with herself all this time.</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Successful enough, she managed to shut the voices in her head, with her own opinions triumphant in victory on the matter, and a final modern decision accepted by the society - but rejected by the Faith:</span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Yes!" - to curls on the hair - "No!" - to hijab!</span></div><div class="bullet_gray" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: initial; background-image: url(http://www.islamswomen.com/includes/images/bullet_gray.gif); background-origin: initial; background-position: 0px 5px; background-repeat: no-repeat no-repeat; font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"And he (/she) is indeed a failure who corrupts it [the soul]!" <span class="smalltxt" style="font-size: 11px; font-style: normal;">[Noble Quran 91:10]</span></span></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Subhana'Allah!!!</span></div><div class="bullet_gray" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: initial; background-image: url(http://www.islamswomen.com/includes/images/bullet_gray.gif); background-origin: initial; background-position: 0px 5px; background-repeat: no-repeat no-repeat; font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Nay! You prefer the life of this world; While the hereafter is better and more lasting." <span class="smalltxt" style="font-size: 11px; font-style: normal;">[Noble Quran 87:16-17]</span></span></div><div class="bullet_gray" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: initial; background-image: url(http://www.islamswomen.com/includes/images/bullet_gray.gif); background-origin: initial; background-position: 0px 5px; background-repeat: no-repeat no-repeat; font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 15px; padding-left: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: purple; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"You are the best community (Ummah) raised up for (the benefit of) humanity; enjoining what is right and forbidding what is wrong and believing in Allah." <span class="smalltxt" style="font-size: 11px; font-style: normal;">[Noble Quran 3:110]</span></span></div>Asiyah bent Zainy ( Rini Rahayu)http://www.blogger.com/profile/13341567584093405272noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1095193332412070540.post-2480647863481920442011-01-20T10:00:00.004+07:002011-01-21T05:32:41.775+07:00Apakah Salah Saya Belajar Bahasa Inggris?<div style="text-align: justify;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEip-AkDliNo5YULnvN38RCcxcdn_OJNWncSeGpRb2vC322cpyGKqOuk_-2pqVUbKQMkbvOvbPSB-LiH3roDUhgCDWpgg-5STJHCu_JiH29QDDRzYba10jemGd0nop7LLC7jP-pTOa28M-Kh/s1600/Subject_English.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEip-AkDliNo5YULnvN38RCcxcdn_OJNWncSeGpRb2vC322cpyGKqOuk_-2pqVUbKQMkbvOvbPSB-LiH3roDUhgCDWpgg-5STJHCu_JiH29QDDRzYba10jemGd0nop7LLC7jP-pTOa28M-Kh/s200/Subject_English.jpg" width="200" /></a></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Beberapa waktu lalu saya sempat tertegun ketika ada seseorang yang nyeletuk mengatakan "Untuk apa belajar bahasa kafir? Di akhirat nanti kamu ditanya pakai bahasa Al-Qur'an, bahasa Arob. Bukan bahasa orang kafir!". Awalnya saya cukup emosi mendengar pernyataan orang tersebut, tetapi saya berusaha belajar menjalankan Sunnah dengan memilih diam dan berta'awudz.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #666666; font-size: 12px; line-height: 20px;">“</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: #ffe599;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #666666; font-size: 12px; line-height: 20px;"><strong><span style="color: green;">Barangsiapa marah, hendaknya diam (dulu).</span></strong></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #666666; font-size: 12px; line-height: 20px;">” [HR.Ahmad no.2029]</span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: #ffe599; color: #666666; font-size: 12px; line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><br />
</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: #ffe599; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #666666; font-size: 12px; line-height: 20px;">“</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #666666; font-size: 12px; line-height: 20px;"><strong><span style="color: green;">seorang lelaki berkata kepada Nabi shallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam: “Berilah aku nasehat.” Beliau menjawab, “Janganlah engkau marah.” Lelaki itu mengulang-ngulang permintaannya, (namun) Nabi (selalu) menjawab,”Janganlah engkau marah.</span></strong></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #666666; font-size: 12px; line-height: 20px;">”</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #666666; font-size: 12px; line-height: 20px;"> [</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #666666; font-size: 12px; line-height: 20px;">HR.al-Bukhari no.6116]</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: #ffe599; color: #666666; font-size: 12px; line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><br />
</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: #ffe599; color: #666666; font-size: 12px; line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"> “<strong><span style="color: green;">Barangsiapa menahan amarahnya padahal mampu meluapkannya, Allah akan memanggilnya di hadapan para makhluk pada hari kiamat untuk memberinya pilihan bidadari yang ia inginkan.</span></strong>” [HR.at-Tirmidzi no.1944]</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: #ffe599; color: #666666; font-size: 12px; line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><br />
</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: #ffe599; color: #666666; font-size: 12px; line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">“<strong><span style="color: green;">Aku pernah duduk di samping Nabi saat dua orang lelaki tengah saling caci. Salah seorang dari mereka telah memerah wajahnya dan urat lehernya tegang. Beliau bersabda, “Aku benar-benar mengetahui perkataan yang bila diucapkannya, niscaya akan lenyap apa (emosi) yang ia alami. Andai ia mengatakan: A’udzu billahi minasy syaithanir rajim, pastilah akan lenyap emosi yang ada padanya.</span></strong>” [HR.al-Bukhari no.3282, Muslim no.2610]</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #666666; font-size: 12px; line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><br />
</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px;">Selain dikarenakan mengingat beberapa hadits tersebut, saya juga berpikir kalau setiap orang memiliki pikiran dan minat yang berbeda, di mana minat saya adalah pada bidang komunikasi, terutama menggunakan bahasa Inggris, dan bisa jadi orang yang mengatakan demikian memiliki minat yang berbeda yang mungkin tidak saya sukai.</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px;"><br />
</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px;">Mengenai bahasa Inggris ini sendiri, cukup mengesankan bagi saya. Entah mengapa saya sangat suka sekali belajar bahasa, tidak hanya bahasa Inggris, tetapi juga beberapa bahasa asing, dan yang paling saya gandrungi saat ini adalah English, Arabic, dan Korean. </span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px;"><br />
</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px;">Saya memiliki keinginan yang sangat besar untuk menguasai beberapa bahasa, menjadi multilingual person dan menyampaikan pemahaman serta pengetahuan saya kepada orang lain, terutama yang berkaitan tentang masalah syari'at dan sosial. Saya sempat ingin berhenti dari hobbi saya ini, akan tetapi sekitar setahun yang lalu saya pernah berkunjung ke situs fatwa-online, dan di sana saya menemukan sebuah artikel mengenai keinginan syaikh Utsaimin rohimahuLloh untuk mampu berbahasa Inggris, berikut translate artikel dalam bahasa Indonesia yang saya temukan pula pada situs Ustadz abu Rumaysho:</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px;"><br />
</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: #ffe599; font-size: 12px; line-height: normal;"><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;">Ada perkataan yang sangat menarik sekali bagi para penuntut ilmu dari seorang ‘alim Robbani, Syaikh Muhammad bin Sholih Al ‘Utsaimin –semoga Allah senantiasa merahmati beliau-.[1] Perkataan ini akan menepis anggapan sebagian orang yang terlalu antipati jika ada yang ingin menguasai bahasa Inggris karena disangka ini adalah bahasa orang kafir. Padahal Syaikh Ibnu ‘Utsaimin sendiri punya angan-angan agar bisa menguasai bahasa Inggris. Karena bahasa Inggris bukan hanya menjadi bahasa non muslim saat ini, bahkan bahasa ini sudah tersebar di berbagai negeri termasuk negeri kaum muslimin. Dan satu sisi begitu manfaat, terutama bagi dakwah pada mereka yang non muslim.<br />
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Coba perhatikan perkataan beliau berikut ini.<br />
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وإن كنا نرى كما هو واقع أن اللغة العربية أفضل اللغات وأشرفها؛ لأنها لغة القرآن الكريم ولغة سيد المرسلين عليه الصلاة والسلام، لكن هذه لغة عالمية مشهورة يتكلم بها المسلم والكافر، ثم هي مقررة عليك حتى وإن كانت لغة الكفار، فإنك ربما تحتاجها في يوم من الأيام، أنا أتمنى أني أعرف هذه اللغة؛ لأني وجدت فيها مصلحة كبيرة، يأتي رجل ليسلم بين يديك فلا تستطيع أن تتفاهم معه<br />
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“Kami berpandangan--sebagaimana realitas yang ada--bahwa bahasa Arab tetap adalah bahasa yang paling mulia. Karena bahasa Arab adalah bahasa Al Qur’an Al Karim dan juga menjadi bahasa para Rasul ‘alaihish sholaatu was salaam. Akan tetapi bahasa Inggris adalah bahasa dunia yang begitu masyhur. Bahasa ini digunakan oleh muslim dan kafir (sehingga sekarang tidak bisa lagi disebut bahasa khas orang kafir, pen). Di samping itu, bahasa Inggris itu menjadi bahasa yang wajib Anda pelajari (diberbagai jenjang pendidikan, pen). Andai bahasa Inggris adalah bahasa khas orang kafir, boleh jadi pada suatu waktu Anda membutuhkannya.<br />
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Aku sendiri berangan-angan, andai saja aku bisa menguasai bahasa Inggris. Sungguh, aku melihat terdapat manfaat yang amat besar bagi dakwah jika saja bahasa Inggris bisa kukuasai. Karena jika kita tidak menguasai bahasa tersebut, bagaimana kita bisa berdakwah jika ada yang masuk Islam di hadapan kita.”[2]<br />
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Pelajaran yang patut direnungkan. Jadi sebenarnya mempelajari bahasa Inggris dilihat dari pemanfaatannya. Jika menguasai bahasa Inggris supaya bisa sekedar melancong ke negeri-negeri kafir, tentu saja niatan yang keliru. Namun jika tujuannya adalah untuk dakwah, ini sungguh sangat mulia.<br />
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<span style="font-style: italic;">Ya Allah, mudahkanlah kami dalam dakwah untuk memperjuangkan agama-Mu dan meninggikan kalimat-Mu yang mulia “laa ilaha illallah” dengan ikhlas selalu mengharapkan wajah-Mu</span>.</span></b></span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: #ffe599; font-size: 12px; line-height: normal;"><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;"><br />
</span></b></span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #444444;">D</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: #ffe599;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;">isusun di Panggang-GK, saat Zhuhur, 13 Syawal 1431 H (21/09/2010)<br />
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Muhammad Abduh Tuasikal<br />
Artikel www.rumaysho.com<br />
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[1] Kami menelusuri perkataan ini setelah mendapatkan faedah dari guru kami, Ustadz Aris Munandar.<br />
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[2] Liqo’ Al Bab Al Maftuh kaset no. 61, Syaikh Muhammad bin Sholih Al ‘Utsaimin.</span></span></b></span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: #ffe599;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;"><br />
</span></span></b></span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Jadi, sekarang saya... kembali ke hobi saya, memang saya tidak pintar dalam hal tersebut, tapi namanya hoby, why not? hehe~</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Semoga bermanfaat, cukuplah cita-cita utama saya disimpan hingga waktu dan hasil nanti yang akan menunjukkan saya pernah memiliki cita-cita utama ini.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Cukup sekian dulu, semangat! BismiLlah..</span></div>Asiyah bent Zainy ( Rini Rahayu)http://www.blogger.com/profile/13341567584093405272noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1095193332412070540.post-74963615726893410852011-01-01T16:26:00.002+07:002011-01-16T16:57:06.772+07:00What is Love?<div style="text-align: justify;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://duniainspirasi.files.wordpress.com/2007/06/40701_11_18_2006_2_44_53_pm_-_heart_fire.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://duniainspirasi.files.wordpress.com/2007/06/40701_11_18_2006_2_44_53_pm_-_heart_fire.jpg" /></a></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #4c1130; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Every people must be ever talked and felt love on their life, so do I. This word 'Love' is flying now in my mind after reading a friend's note on a social networking note. Actually I don't know how is it, but I ever felt taste and feeling something I thought love with a man. Slowly, that feeling was covering me when it came to my teenager life, my puberty exactly. I couldn't sleep, eat, study and do everthing normally as well. It borthered me a lot and wasted my heart to feel it. I kept muting and saved it in my heart without telling anybody even my closest friend. I remembered a verse in Al-Qur'an:</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #4c1130; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">"Lets those who find not the wherewithal for marriage keep them-selves chaste, until Alloh gives them means out of His Grace......." (An-Noor [24]: 33)</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #4c1130; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #4c1130; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Well, that was a symptom of human maturity process, and it couldn't be refused in everyone's life. The only way we must do is responding it prudently and do not be lulled with a taste you don't know, why do I say this way? because many people on that age do not understand that feeling and respond it as love that must know by a person that they feel 'that feeling' to, while what they are feeling isn't love, <span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="hps" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">but</span> <span class="hps" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">only</span> <span class="hps" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">a feeling</span> <span class="hps" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">of sympathy</span> <span class="hps" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">in</span> <span class="hps" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">something</span> <span class="hps" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">different</span> <span class="hps" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">views</span> <span class="hps" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">on opposite sex they feel 'that feeling' to. And </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="hps" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">unfortunately</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="hps" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">it</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="hps" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">has led them</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="hps" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">astray.</span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="hps" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #4c1130; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><br />
</span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #4c1130; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="hps" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">Why astray? Because, by that feeling they will </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="hps" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">emotionally</span> <span class="hps" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">expect</span> <span class="hps" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">their feelings</span> also <span class="hps" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">felt</span> <span class="hps" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">by</span> <span class="hps" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">their loved ones. After that! when their loved ones feel so or respon their love then there would be a relationship status rezcognized as allowance affair to do everthing freely each other such as kissing, necking, even marital relationship or making love that only allowed to do by marital couple. Astaghfirulloh..... Now, this is usual and can be found everwhere, and they say that 'It is our right'. Then, what differs us and animals??</span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #4c1130; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="hps" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif"><br />
</span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #4c1130; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="hps" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">O Alloh, don't let me astray by something I don't know..... Wal'iyadzubillah,</span></span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #4c1130; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="hps" title="Klik untuk terjemahan alternatif">Ya Muqollibal Quluub tsabit qolbuna 'alaa dinik.</span></span></span></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #888888; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"></span><br />
<div class="g-section" id="gt-res-tools" style="display: inline-block; margin-top: 16px; vertical-align: top; width: 611px; zoom: 1;"><div class="gt-icon-c" id="gt-res-listen" role="button" style="color: #1111cc; cursor: pointer; float: left; margin-right: 1em; outline-style: none; text-decoration: none;" tabindex="0"></div></div>Asiyah bent Zainy ( Rini Rahayu)http://www.blogger.com/profile/13341567584093405272noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1095193332412070540.post-320839103186375132010-12-21T18:37:00.001+07:002010-12-21T18:40:24.287+07:00Laziest of me<div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Bismillah, In The Name of Alloh I started writing..</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">By the last of this year, I am wondering that I am becoming a laziest woman on earth. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Oh Alloh, I don’t know what has been going on me..</span></i></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">I didn’t used to get this bulky lazyness. I am afraid the angers of Alloh will cancels all, because we know that He is the Almighty, so He can punish me all way.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">I have been spending time a lot on such meaningless place as internet social networking sites, messaging, talking, dreaming, doing nothing, lying down on my bed, etc. How bad and pitiful!</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Astaghfirullohal 'adzim, hope everyone who read this pray forgiveness of Alloh for me.</span></div>Asiyah bent Zainy ( Rini Rahayu)http://www.blogger.com/profile/13341567584093405272noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1095193332412070540.post-74159126601178577712010-11-29T07:28:00.000+07:002010-11-29T07:28:45.866+07:00Mengganti puasa yang tidak dikerjakan pada bulan Ramadhan karena haid<div style="text-align: justify;"><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Pertanyaan:</span></b></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Saya tidak pernah mengganti puasa yang tidak saya kerjakan pada bulan Ramadhan dikarenakan periode haid bulanan saya dan saya tidak bisa menghitung berapa jumlahnya. Apa yang harus saya lakukan sekarang?</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Jawaban:</span></b></div><div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span title=""><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Wahai saudari muslimah, Anda harus mencari tahu masalah dan berapa lama Anda tidak melasanakan puasa pada (Ramadhon). Dan mohonlah bantuan dan petunjuk dari Allah. </span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span title=""><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><br />
</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span title=""></span><span title=""><i>"Allah tidak membebani seseorang di luar ruang lingkup"</i> (al-Baqarah 2:286)</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span title=""><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><br />
</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span title=""><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Lakukanlah yang terbaik dan cari tahu (penyebab) masalah ini dan berhati-hatilah dalam memperhatikan diri sendiri hingga Anda selesai melaksanakan (mengganti) puasa Anda sejumlah waktu tidak berpuasa (Ramadhan) yang Anda yakini. </span></span><span title=""><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Anda juga harus bertaubat kepada Allah.</span></span></div></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span title=""><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><br />
</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span title=""><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><br />
</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span title=""><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; color: #741b47; font-size: 12px; line-height: 18px;"><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Shaykh `Abdul-`Azeez Bin Baz</span></b></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span title=""><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; color: #741b47; font-size: 12px; line-height: 18px;"><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black; font-weight: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Islamic Fatawa Regarding Women - Darussalam Pgs. 145</span></span></b></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span title=""><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; color: #741b47; font-size: 12px; line-height: 18px;"><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black; font-weight: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><br />
</span></span></b></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span title=""><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; color: #741b47; font-size: 12px; line-height: 18px;"><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black; font-weight: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">translated from this <a href="http://www.fatwaislam.com/fis/index.cfm?scn=fd&ID=1384">link </a>on www.fatwaislam.com</span></span></b></span></span></div>Asiyah bent Zainy ( Rini Rahayu)http://www.blogger.com/profile/13341567584093405272noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1095193332412070540.post-38486132875955570602010-11-29T06:59:00.004+07:002010-11-29T12:11:54.006+07:00Mengganti Puasa Ramadhan yang tidak dikerjakan pada awal pubertas<div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span title=""><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Pertanyaan:</span></b></span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span title=""><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Sekitar sepuluh tahun yang lalu saya melewati sebuah tahap yang dikenal dengan pubertas. </span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span"><span title=""><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Namun, pada tahun pertama masa dewasa saya, saya tidak puasa bulan Ramadhan meskipun saya tidak punya alasan fisik. </span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span"><span title=""><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Itu karena ketidaktahuan saya pada saat itu, saya tidak menyadari bahwa itu wajib. </span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span"><span title=""><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Apakah saya sekarang harus menggantinya? </span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span"><span title=""><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Selain dari menggantinya, apakah ada penebusan dosa yang harus saya lakukan?</span></span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span title=""><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><br />
</span></span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span title=""><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Jawaban:</span></b></span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span title=""><span title=""><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Adalah suatu keharusan atas Anda untuk mengganti puasa yang mana tidak Anda kerjakan, pada saat yang sama, bertobatlah dan mohon ampun kepada Allah. </span></span></span><span title=""><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Anda juga harus memberi makan seorang miskin untuk setiap hari sebanyak setengah sa' dari makanan pokok seperti kurma, beras, atau makanan sejenis lainnya jika Anda memiliki kemampuan untuk melakukannya. </span></span></span><span title=""><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Jika anda miskin dan tidak memiliki kemampuan untuk melakukannya, maka tidak ada pada Anda selain mengganti puasa Anda.</span></span></span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span title=""><span title=""><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><br />
</span></span></span></span></span></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;"></span></span><br />
<div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;"><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Shaykh `Abdul-`Azeez Bin Baz</span></b></span></span></span></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Islamic Fatawa Regarding Women - Darussalam Pgs. 145-146</span></span></span><br />
<div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><br />
</span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Translated from this <a href="http://www.fatwaislam.com/fis/index.cfm?scn=fd&ID=1385">link</a> on www.fatwaislam.com</span></span></span></div><div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;"><span title=""><br />
</span></span></div></div>Asiyah bent Zainy ( Rini Rahayu)http://www.blogger.com/profile/13341567584093405272noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1095193332412070540.post-35147811337623809562010-11-17T19:28:00.004+07:002010-11-17T19:38:33.109+07:00Kembali dalam Maksiat<div class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;"><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Antara aku dan hatiku tersekat oleh ruang seluas timur dan barat</span></span></i></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;"><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Ruangan itu dijejajali oleh benda padat yang begitu berat,</span></span></i></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></span> </i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;"><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Saat ini,</span></span></i></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;"><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Kerjaanku adalah maksiat,</span></span></i></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;"><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Dayang-dayangku adalah syaithan</span></span></i></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;"><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Aku telah tertangkap oleh raja iblis,</span></span></i></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;"><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Aku masih kalah lagi..</span></span></i></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">===</span></span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13; font-family: sans-serif;"><div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Hanya ada satu rongga di dalam hatiku, jika tidak diisi dengan perkara ma’ruf jelaslah yang mungkar menguasai,</span></span></span></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Sudah begitu lama aku membiarkan diriku dikuasai oleh iblis terlaknat, </span></span></span></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">dalam kesendirian aku tak bisa melawan, </span></span></span></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">tidak ada yang membantuku untuk memeranginya, </span></span></span></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">aku selalu merasa ketakutan, </span></span></span></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">tapi tak ada yang menguatkanku dan mengingatkanku,</span></span></span></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></span> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Seluruh dunia seperti mendukung kemaksiatan ketika aku mengerjakan,</span></span></span></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">aku sangat pusing sekali.. </span></span></span></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Aku butuh teman yang bisa memperingatiku, </span></span></span></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">yang bisa memberikan masukan padaku, </span></span></span></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">yang mau mengkritikku dengan tegas, </span></span></span></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">bukan dengan cara yang memalukan dan menyakitkan..</span></span></span></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></span> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Aku ingin sekali pulang, tapi lari dari masalah sudah pasti pengecut, aku bukanlah pengecut… aku akan senantiasa berusaha menghadapi semua ini… </span></span></span></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">karena memang semua ini untuk ku hadapi sendiri,</span></span></span></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></span> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Aku bisa hidup di manapun..</span></span></span></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Yaa ALLOH, hambaMU di luar sana begitu banyak, tetapi aku hanya memiliki ENGKAU.. mungkin begini adalah yang terbaik, </span></span></span></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">dalam sendiri bisa banyak berpikir dan tadabbur, </span></span></span></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">bisa banyak belajar dan diam.. </span></span></span></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">dalam sendiri bisa banyak belajar dan mengurangi gerakan tak berarti, </span></span></span></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">dalam sendiri menghadapi segala sesuatu sendiri, </span></span></span></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">jadi tidak ada yang bertanggung jawab ketika aku berbuat maksiat sementara mereka tidak memperingatiku...</span></span></span></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></span> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Dalam sendiri bisa lebih banyak diam sehingga tidak menyakiti orang lain, </span></span></span></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">dalam sendiri lebih bisa mengontrol anggota tubuh agar tidak menyakiti orang lain, </span></span></span></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">dalam sendiri bisa lebih banyak merenung, </span></span></span></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">dengan begitu bisa mengurangi maksiat..</span></span></span></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Aku sangat menikmati semua ini, </span></span></span></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">aku sangat senang sekali… aku akan sendiri…</span></span></span></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></span> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Pertengahan Mei 2010</span></span></span></div></span></div>Asiyah bent Zainy ( Rini Rahayu)http://www.blogger.com/profile/13341567584093405272noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1095193332412070540.post-39462630658074635062010-11-17T18:39:00.004+07:002010-11-17T18:51:01.436+07:00Kekasihku adalah Buku<div class="MsoNormal"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://canopus.blogdetik.com/files/2010/08/home_photo_books.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em; text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;"><img border="0" height="200" src="http://canopus.blogdetik.com/files/2010/08/home_photo_books.jpg" width="171" /></span></a></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;">Kekasihku adalah buku yang takkan muak denganku,</span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;">Meski harta menjadi sedikit dan ketampanan mulai susut,</span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;">Buku sang pujaan hatiku, di kala tak ada tambatan qalbu,</span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;">Kan kurayu jikalau dia memahami rayuan qalbu,</span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;">Buku.. teman setiaku kala duduk, yang takkan merasa jemu,</span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;">Penjelas kebenaran yang tak membuat jemu,</span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;">Buku.. lautan yang takkan menarik pemberiannya,</span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;">Membanjiriku dengan harta, meski harta menahannya,</span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;">Buku.. petunjuk terbaik untuk meraih asaku,</span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;">Darinya selalu ada pengalaman baru dan penerang langkahku,</span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;"><br />
</span> </span></span></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;">Bait-bait yang terpampang pada lemari Imam Abu Bakar Al-Qoffal</span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;">(Taqyid Al-‘Ilm 127)</span></span></span><o:p></o:p></div></div>Asiyah bent Zainy ( Rini Rahayu)http://www.blogger.com/profile/13341567584093405272noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1095193332412070540.post-85682038654376200172010-11-13T06:29:00.002+07:002010-11-17T18:52:47.143+07:00Futur<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #38761d;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: #f4cccc;">Kemenangan yang dirindu kian menambah jarak,</span></span></span></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #38761d;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: #f4cccc;">Kekalahan yang ditakutkan kian dicintai,</span></span></span></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #38761d;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: #f4cccc;">Segala arah rencana tidak tersusuri,</span></span></span></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #38761d;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: #f4cccc;">Sekian banyak cita-cita telah retak,</span></span></span></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #38761d;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: #f4cccc;"><br />
</span> </span></span></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #38761d;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: #f4cccc;">Aku kesepian ditengah manusia-manusia yang selalu menengadah ke arah langit dalam tundukan hati dan badan mereka,</span></span></span></span></span></o:p></div>Asiyah bent Zainy ( Rini Rahayu)http://www.blogger.com/profile/13341567584093405272noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1095193332412070540.post-88031490771900135252010-11-07T08:34:00.002+07:002010-11-11T12:33:57.551+07:00Ingat-ingatlah kata-kataku ini....!<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: sans-serif; font-size: 11px;"></span><br />
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_E6Fz97fk6AQ/R-AEh8IrOcI/AAAAAAAAALI/iq1J8VRoFaA/S1600-R/RememberThis.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><img border="0" height="218" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_E6Fz97fk6AQ/R-AEh8IrOcI/AAAAAAAAALI/iq1J8VRoFaA/S1600-R/RememberThis.jpg" width="320" /></span></a></div><h3 class="UIIntentionalStory_Message" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span class="UIStory_Message"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">Tulisan ini bukanlah perkataan ulama, ahli hikmah maupun seorang bijak zaman ini, akan tetapi tulisan ini adalah goresan hatiku yang kubuat atas rasa sedihku karena seorang sahabat wanita yang berani menebar fitnah dan syubhat mengenai manhaj salaf dan ulama ahlus sunnah. Di dalam tiap kata yang kurangkai terdapat hikmah yang ingin kusampaikan ke hatiku sendiri - yang telah aku analogikan ke dalam bahasa sederhana. Jangan salah memahami kalimat-kalimat berikut, sekali lagi kukatakan, ini hanyalah analogi mengenai pesan seseorang kepada seorang lainnya untuk patuh agar dia sampai ke tempat yang ingin dia tuju. </span></span></span></span></span></h3><h3 class="UIIntentionalStory_Message" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span class="UIStory_Message"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">Aku sangat berharap sekali sahabatku sekalian memahami bagaimana makna dan bagaimana Ittiba' karena begitu jauhnya jarak waktu antara kita dan Rosululloh sehingga penyimpangan itu pasti terjadi, jadi ingatlah apa yang dipesankan oleh Rosululloh sholallohu 'alayhi wa sallam baik-baik dan laksanakan seperti yang beliau pesankan, inysaAlloh akan sampailah kita ke tempat yang kita harapkan tuju.</span></span></span></span></span></h3><h3 class="UIIntentionalStory_Message" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />
</span></span></span> </span></h3><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"> = = =</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><br />
</span></div><h3 class="UIIntentionalStory_Message" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span class="UIStory_Message"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">Yang engkau tanam akan engkau tuai, yang engkau pelihara akan engkau dapatkan. Jagalah dirimu baik-baik nak, di depan sana terdapat padang yang tandus dan subur, setelah itu bukit dan lautan, di antara dan di dalamnya ada hewan-hewan jinak dan buas ada yang bisa engkau makan dan ada yang engkau dilarang untuk memakannya.</span></span></span></span></span></h3><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;">Minuman dan udara serta tanah yang akan engkau jadikan pijakan telah disediakan untukmu, teruslah telurusi jalan ini, nanti di sepanjang jalan akan ada anak-anak panah dan penunjuk mata angin, ini aku bekali kompas untukmu, dan ingatlah bahwa matahari itu tenggelam di sebelah barat dan timbul di sebelah timur.</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;">Sesekali nanti engkau akan menemui lubang dan kerikil, hujan dan terik mentari yang menghangatkan dan juga bisa menyengat kulitmu, jadi ketahuilah waktu untuk menantangnya.</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;">Jangan engkau abaikan anjing yang kehausan ataupun kuda yang jatuh terperosok ke dalam kubangan, bantulah mereka, jika engkau tidak mampu carilah pertolongan, jangan membiarkan dirimu hanya berkata 'kasihan' dengan suara lantang agar orang percaya bahwa engkau memiliki rasa kasihan dihatimu padalah engkau tidak seperti itu.</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;">Ingatlah pesanku baik-baik, Yang engakau Tuju sedang menunggumu di sana, jika engkau berhasil apapun yang engkau mau akan Ia kabulkan. Semalam Dia telah menjelaskan sebuah peta jalan untuk ke tempat Dia berada, ingatanku masih kuat tentang itu karenanya aku telah menunangkannya ke dalam peta ini agar lebih mudah engkau pahami dan bisa engkau bawa berpergian.</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;">Jikalau engkau tidak mengikuti peta ini, tidak memanfaatkan peralatan yang telah kuperbekali engkau untuk kepergianmu, dan tidak mengindahkan kata-kataku maka jangan bersedih hati jika nanti kita tidak bertemu kembali. Jagalah dengan baik-baik peta ini dan engkau tidak perlu takut kertasnya akan hancur karena Dia telah menyampaikan padaku bahwa peta ini tidak akan pernah rusak selama engkau menjaga dan menyusuri jalan sesuai dengan yang ada didalamnya.</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;">Telusurilah terus jalan ini nak, jika engkau membutuhkan permata atau pakain silahkan singgah sesaat untuk mengambilnya sebagai perbekalan.</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;">Dia telah mengatakan waktumu sangat terbatas, tidak lebih lama dari habisnya pasir-pasir di tabung ini jatuh ke lantai, karenanya manfaatkanlah waktumu baik-baik jangan terlena ketika ada yang menawarimu berbincang sambil menikmati suguhan untuk tertawa bersama saling mempertontonkan gigi kalian.</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;">in full of sadness,</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;">Asiyah bint Zainy </span></div>Asiyah bent Zainy ( Rini Rahayu)http://www.blogger.com/profile/13341567584093405272noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1095193332412070540.post-75624604091105403892010-10-30T06:54:00.003+07:002010-11-17T18:56:18.248+07:00Pendapat seorang Bapak-bapak beragama Hindu tentang Bid'ah<div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.murnis.com/images/products/textiles2/poleng.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><img border="0" height="224" src="http://www.murnis.com/images/products/textiles2/poleng.jpg" width="320" /></span></span></a></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Beberapa bulan lalu ada seorang Bapak-bapak beragama Hindu setengah baya, yaitu pegawai kantor gubernur NTB yang datang berbelanja ke gudang barang keluarga saya yang terletak di sentra kerajinan bambu Gunungsari - Lombok Barat, berikut cerita singkatnya:</span></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br />
</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> </span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Pak Nyoman : “Assalamu'alaikum Pak Aji,”</span></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Bapak : “Wa'alaikumsalam warohmatulloh . Kebetulan waktu itu Bapak saya belum tahu kalau Pak Nyoman agamanya Hindu, saking fasih ucapan salamnya, makanya dijawab. </span></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">“Cari apa, Pak?”</span></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Pak Nyoman : “Pak, saya mau cari kere (tirai bambu), ada?”</span></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Bapak : “Oh, ada Pak, silahkan lihat di sini.”</span></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br />
</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> </span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Beberapa saat Pak Nyoman memilih-milih tirai bambu yang dipajang di gudang bagian dalam, setelah menemukan yg dicari kemudian beliau dipersilahkan duduk di gudang barang bagian depan yg kebetulan dekat dengan jalan raya. Transaksipun terjadi, negosiasi harga dan sistem pengiriman dibicarakan. Beberapa topik ringan hingga topik-topik pembicaraan yang mengungkapkan jati diri Pak Nyoman diperbincangkan, akhirnya Bapak Saya tahu bahwa beliau seorang beragama Hindu. Dalam hati, si Bapak ingin tertawa terbahak-bahak karena telah terkelabui oleh fasihnya ucapan salam Pak Nyoman tadi.</span></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Tiba-tiba, “teng… teng… teng.. teng.. teng.. prankkkk!!”, suara dentum alat musik khas arak-arakan upacara ummat Hindu terdengar menggelegar melintasi jalan, terlihat serombongan pemuda duduk di pinggir-pinggir mobil </span></span></span><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">pick-up</span></span></span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> mengenakan kain berkotak-kotak hitam putih dan topi kuning keemasan di kepala, di tengah-tengah mereka ada sebuah boneka besar dengan wajah yang sangat menyeramkan dengan jari-jari berkuku tajam dan dibuat berkesan kotor, taringnya seperti gading gajah yang diasah dan rambutnya kusut disertai mata melotot yang pernah selalu membuat Saya berkeringat ketakutan hampir pingsan setiap kali melihatnya waktu kecil dulu.</span></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br />
</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> </span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Bapak : “Loh, Bapak ndak ikut upacara agama?”</span></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Pak Nyoman : “Acara agama apa ya Pak Aji?”</span></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Bapak : “Itu acara angkat ogoh-ogoh (patung jelmaan setan khas bali) yg lewat tadi.”</span></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Pak Nyoman : “Eeeh Pak Aji ini, bukan acara kita yang kayak begitu-begitu, anak-anak pemuda sekarang ini aja sih yang punya kerjaan. Udah tahu itu BID’AH masih aja dikerjain. Padahal ndak ada untungnya yang begitu-begitu. Ngabisin uang, ngabisin waktu, ngabisin tenaga, ntar ujung-ujungnyanya besiaq (bertengkar) dah biasanya.”</span></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Bapak saya tekejut mendengar ucapan Pak Nyoman. Ingin memastikan ucapan beliau si Bapak sampai tanya lagi “Hah? Apa Pak, Bid’ah?”</span></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Pak Nyoman : “Iya, pasti sih Pak Aji tau bid’ah itu apa, orang saya dikasitahu dan jadi ngerti tentang bid’ah dari orang Islam.”</span></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Bapak : “Memangnya siapa yg kasi tau Side (kamu, bahasa sopan) arti bid’ah itu?”</span></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Pak Nyoman : “Pak Gubernur NTB, setiap habis sholat dzuhur itu pasti dah ada kayak ceramah-ceramah itu beberapa menit, kedengaran sampe ruang kantor. Kan semenjak gubernur Tuan Guru Bajang (Ustad muda) sekarang kalo udah mendekati adzan nda boleh ada yang kerja, harus semuanya istirahat dan yang beragama Islam harus sholat di masjid. Eeh, kebagusnya Pak Gubernur yang sekarang ini.”</span></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Bapak : “Ooh gitu. Alhamdulillah pak kalau menurut Side begitu, jadi gimana bid’ah itu menurut penangkapan Side?”</span></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Pak Nyoman : “ Yah itu dah, apa-apa yang ndak pernah diajarkan agama dari orang-orang dulu. Kan kayak ogoh-ogoh ini baru-baru di Bali adanya, kerjaan anak-anak muda yang mau senang-senang, capek-capekkan kita ngeluarin uang aja”</span></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br />
</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> </span></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br />
</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> </span></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br />
</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> </span></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Pertengahan tahun 2010,</span></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Asiyah bint Muhammad Zainy</span></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br />
</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> </span></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br />
</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> </span></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br />
</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> </span></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">NB: Pak Nyoman = Nama samaran (hehe)</span></span></span></div>Asiyah bent Zainy ( Rini Rahayu)http://www.blogger.com/profile/13341567584093405272noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1095193332412070540.post-55468512732911392012010-09-18T01:10:00.001+07:002010-09-18T08:37:53.298+07:00Diam Menanti<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">Hatiku tetap membungkam bunyinya walaupun mulutku mengicaukan suara berbeda,</span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">Jumlah frekuensi detak sudah tak terhitung,</span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">Hanya suara sumbang yang kuperdengarkan,</span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">Aku tidak mau kalah melawan dia dalam diriku,</span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">Orang berkata angin itu hambar,</span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">Kerjanya hanya mengeringkan jemuran dan menghilangkan keringat,</span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">Dia yang selalu aku rindukan kubiarkan,</span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">Menjelajah mencari maunya dan aku,</span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">Hingga dia sudah tegak dan tak ingin menoleh depan bersama yang lain,</span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">Dengan kesucian, kerinduan, dan kesiapan dalam dirinya,</span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">Lihatlah aku, sudah lama hanya menantimu.</span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">[Malam setengah purnama setelah seharian mencari abaya hitam pekat yang tak berhasil ditemukan]</span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">- Asiyah in Missing,</span></span>Asiyah bent Zainy ( Rini Rahayu)http://www.blogger.com/profile/13341567584093405272noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1095193332412070540.post-3873717827134735112010-09-15T08:07:00.000+07:002010-09-15T13:47:15.144+07:00Gara-gara Hal Sepele, Bertengkar Lagi<div style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.coach4growth.com/Images/employee-motivation-chain-break.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="208" src="http://www.coach4growth.com/Images/employee-motivation-chain-break.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>Sudah 7 hari semenjak sebelum lebaran kami belum juga baikan, padahal beberapa kali aku meminta maaf padanya, tapi masih saja dibalas dengan jawaban yang sinis bagiku walaupun secara tertulis dia mengatakan sudah memaafkanku. Tetapi pesan-pesan yang dikirimkannya padaku cukup mewakili ke-belum-bisaaannya memaafkan aku. Padahal apa yang dipersangkakan pada kami ada alasannya.</div><div style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><i>"Janganlah kalian saling memutuskan hubungan, jangan saling membelakangi, jangan saling bermusuhan, jangan saling hasud (bertengkar) Jadilah hamba-hamba Allah yang bersaudara. Tidak halal (haram) bagi seorang muslim untuk tidak bertegur sapa dengan saudaranya dalam batas diatas 3 hari (Hadits Muttafaq ''alaihi)</i></span></div><div style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Okelah, kita sudah bertegur-sapa, bahkan kurang dari 3 hari, akan tetapi nada-nada sapaan itu yang sampai saat ini yang membuatku menganggap bahwa kita belum bertegur-sapa (melebihi 3 hari), bagaimanakah hukumnya? Wallohu a'lam, aku tidak tahu yang jelas hatiku masih kesal. Bagaimana tidak? masih saja! hanya karena masalah sepele pertengkaran dan pertengkaaaaaaan menghampiri!</div><div style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><br />
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</div><div style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Engkau tanyakan padaku mengapa aku begini?</div><div style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Tanyalah pada dirimu, aku hanya bisa menjawab "entahlah", aku memang benar-benar tidak tahu!</div><div style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">bukankah pernah aku sampaikan padamu,</div><div style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"></div><h3 class="UIIntentionalStory_Message" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;"><i><span class="UIStory_Message">"Hendaklah seseorang waspada untuk menjadikan hati kaum mukminin marah kepadanya sementara ia tidak merasa !"<br />
Dikatakan kepadanya: "Bagaimana itu akan terjadi ?"<br />
Beliau berkata: "Seorang hamba melakukan maksiat secara tersembunyi, lalu Allah melemparkan kebencian kepada hati kaum mukminin kepadanya sementara ia tidak mer<span class="text_exposed_hide"></span><span class="text_exposed_show">asa".<br />
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</div><div style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Kita adalah bulir padi dari ladang yang sama, </div><div style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">aku memiliki apa yang engkau miliki,</div><div style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">aku memiliki amarah yang engkau miliki,</div><div style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">aku pasti bermaksiat seperti pastinya engkau bermaksiat,</div><div style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">karenanya, marilah kita saling memahami dan saling memaafkan,</div><div style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Benar-benar memaafkan!</div><div style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><br />
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</div><div style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">15 september 2010 / 5 Syawal 1431 Hijriah</div><div style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Yang masih kesal,</div><div style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Noprin</div>Asiyah bent Zainy ( Rini Rahayu)http://www.blogger.com/profile/13341567584093405272noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1095193332412070540.post-68426097193083106582010-08-30T20:39:00.001+07:002010-11-11T07:57:24.048+07:00NUHA - 1 [Awal Pertemuan]<div style="color: #741b47; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><div style="text-align: justify;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhgPnnJYIHvpvSi9YXu671Q_lQKL_GbAMKWrL7KBmY-mDLr6Vjw7KEhuZu8aTq_b-dcvOnh-Gl-rA-RBuY3Ae6mtgYddGbFe_cBTn_-Mq8AR38_jLagSiU6wcZ8L2tka_q6744RHUm5biU/s1600/nuha+-1.bmp" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em; text-align: justify;"><img border="0" height="271" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhgPnnJYIHvpvSi9YXu671Q_lQKL_GbAMKWrL7KBmY-mDLr6Vjw7KEhuZu8aTq_b-dcvOnh-Gl-rA-RBuY3Ae6mtgYddGbFe_cBTn_-Mq8AR38_jLagSiU6wcZ8L2tka_q6744RHUm5biU/s400/nuha+-1.bmp" width="400" /></a>Berawal dari rasa iri dan kesal pada beberapa orang yang mengelompok-lompokkan diri dan memilih-milih teman yang dijadikan gandengan untuk belajar dan bertanya masalah pelajaran kuliah, aku dan Nonop merasa gerah dan tidak mau terkalahkan. Beberapa hari aku menyusun rencana untuk membentuk kelompok serupa dan menciptakan rencana-rencana besar nan aneh yang akan kami lakukan secara diam-diam hingga nanti telah jadi dan pantas untuk dimunculkan dan berharap "mereka-mereka" (teman-teman yang telah kami buruk sangkai) akan "ter wah-wah" dengan hasil kerja kami dan kami yang telah mereka tak anggap dan tak mereka perhitungkan ternyata adalah orang-orang hebat (hahaha, mimpi di siang berpetir)!</div></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><div style="text-align: justify;">Pada awal pendiriannya, kelompokku ini hanya terdiri dari 2 orang, yah itu lah! Aku dan Nopi, dua orang manusia yang dihatinya dijejali oleh buruk sangka dan dengki pada orang lain. Setiap 3 kali seminggu, kami membuat acara perpanjangan waktu kuliah, maksudnya setelah teman-teman pulang kuliah sekitar jam 03 pm, kami masih harus merelakan sekitar 2 jam hingga pukul 5 untuk belajar Bahasa Inggris, mengerjakan PR, diskusi pelajaran, dan merencanakan hal-hal aneh yang akan kami lakukan berikutnya. Qodarulloh, rencana kami berjalan cukup baik, walaupun rasa lelah di kepala dan badan, hujan air di luar sana, dan hujan keringat di dalam diri ini, tak satupun menghalangi kami untuk tetap rutin menjalankan jadwal belajar kelompok tambahan itu, walaupun hanya berdua saja!</div></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Selang beberapa hari, muncul 2 orang dengan bertandang rasa-rasa seperti apa yang menjadi alasan Kami untuk mendirikan kelompok "ini". Mba Nur dan Umma, 2 orang teman seprogramku dari Kendal dan Enrekang, wajah-wajah harapan seperti yang Kami rasakan ternyata mereka rasakan juga diam-diam. Baru, hingga kami 2 orang yang dianggap tak mungkin untuk bertindak mengelompokkan diri, akhirnya menjadi inspirasi juga buat mereka! Kami yang mungkin di pandangan mereka adalah manusia-manusia manut yang selalu menerima apaun seada-adanya, mungkin lagi yah! kala itu muncul seperti seorang teraniaya yang baru belajar membuka mulut, dan kami pantas untuk dijadikan contoh (huahahaha). Dan ternyata memang! merekapun ingin diakui! (hehe, lebay dikit).</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><b> Akhirnya, 4 orang telah bertemu!!</b></div></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><div style="text-align: justify;">Esoknya Kami putuskan untuk mengubah rencana dan mengadakan rapat untuk melakukan program ulang kegiatan dan apa-apa yang akan Kami lakukan. Then, program kedua keluar!</div></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><div style="text-align: justify;">Tapi, wow! Belum sempat satupun program dari hasil rapat kedua dijalankan, sudah muncul 2 orang baru yang ingin bergabung ke dalam klub Kami, Mba Tika dan Lia. Hahahah! Kalau diungkapkan dalam pribahasa, seolah-olah "tak ada umpan yang dipasang, ikan datang memakan kail". Hatiku sangat senang, rasanya seperti ada hujan turun di tengah padang sahara! Kegembiraanku begitu besaarr!</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><b>Dan akhirnya, 6 orang bertemu!! </b></div></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><div style="text-align: justify;">Dari 6 orang anggota yang telah terkumpul dengan tanpa paksaan dan dengan kesadaran penuh dari anggota, rapat re-program ke-tiga pun dilakukan kembali..! Sekitar bulan mei 2009, setelah melalui diskusi dan perdebatan konyol akhirnya grup tetap telah terbentuk, dan diputuskanlah kelompok belajar dan kelompok "ngapa-ngapain" kami telah remsi untuk dijalankan dan dikenal siapapun dengan nama <b>"NUHA".</b></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><b>Akhirnya, NUHA telah lahir!!</b></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Untuk arti dan mengapa kami memilih nama kelompok NUHA, silahkan teman-teman tunggu untuk artikel di rubrik "Mozaik Hidupku" berikutnya.. Penasaran kan?! Makanya, terus berkunjung yah! (Wkwkwkw, sok penting)</div></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
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</div><div style="text-align: justify;">by </div></div><div style="color: #741b47; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><div style="text-align: justify;">Asiyah bint Muhammad Zainy</div></div>Asiyah bent Zainy ( Rini Rahayu)http://www.blogger.com/profile/13341567584093405272noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1095193332412070540.post-11866137408371742632010-08-29T15:05:00.001+07:002010-08-30T19:23:45.590+07:00Aku Selalu Diberi Kesempatan<div class="separator" style="clear: both; color: #274e13; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif; text-align: center;"><a href="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kv3yrv0fgH1qa63pq.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kv3yrv0fgH1qa63pq.jpg" width="251" /></a></div><div style="color: #274e13; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Alhamdulillah 'alaa kulli haal,</div><div style="color: #274e13; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><br />
</div><div style="color: #274e13; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Mengingat perjalanan hidupku yang meliak-liuk seperti serabut benalu, dengan segala kisah sedih dan menyenangkan, segala kisah biasa dan menegangkan, segala pilihan ke arah baik dan buruk, segalah keputusan yang salah dan benar, segala ketaatan dan kedurhakaan, dan dengan penentangan serta dosa yang sangat melimpah ruah, masih saja aku tetap ditunjukkan dan diarahkan seperti ini - berjalan untuk bertemu Dia.</div><div style="color: #274e13; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><br />
</div><div style="color: #274e13; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Dia.. Alloh Yang Maha Esa, Yang Maha Pengasih lagi Maha Penyayang. Yang Memiliki jiwa ini, Yang Membolak-balikkan hati ini.</div><div style="color: #274e13; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Dengan kata apa hendak kugores ungkapan penghambaan dalam bahasa ibuku ini?</div><div style="color: #274e13; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Dengan kalimat apa hendak aku jelaskan kesyukuran dengan bahasa yang aku pahami ini?</div><div style="color: #274e13; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><br />
</div><div style="color: #274e13; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Sungguh, telah 21 tahun lamanya aku diizinkan membuka dan menutup mata, bernafas, merasakan segar udara pagi, merasakan nikmatnya angin di bawah terik matahari, merasakan nikmatnya nasi untuk mengobati lapar maupun nafsu. Kehidupanku ini, lengkap dan sempurna tanpa cacat. Setiap pagi aku bangun, kelopak mataku bisa membuka dirinya, warna-warna dunia masih mengizinkan dirinya untuk aku kenali, serta lidahku bisa bebas berucap do'a kesyukuran atau tidak karena telah dibangunkan lagi untuk memulai memilih perbuatan baik atau buruk hingga aku akan tidur lagi. Segala wajah, watak, perlakuan, perkataan, godaan, dan keduniaan telah aku temui, dengan segala pemahaman, prinsip, dan pengalaman yang mereka tularkan padaku. Aku masih pula tetap seperti ini - seorang muslimah yang memilki keyakinan di hati dan mengakui sekuat-kuatnya akan keesaan Alloh.</div><div style="color: #274e13; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Dia... Mengingat dia, aku ingin sekali menangis. Entah berapa kedurhakaan dan pengabaian aku perbuat, dosa-dosaku sudah tak sanggup aku perkiraan, kesalahanku tidak pernah habis untuk ku ingat agar bisa diperbaiki, tapi tetap saja Alloh menunjukkan kasih sayangnya padaku.</div><div style="color: #274e13; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Dia telah menjadikan aku seorang wanita yang terlahir dalam keadaan islam, hatiku sangat bahagia jika mengingat itu saja walaupun kesedihan apapun yang sedang aku hadapi.</div><div style="background-color: #cc0000; color: #274e13; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"></div><div style="color: #274e13; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><br />
</div><div style="color: #274e13; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Tidak itu saja, tidak saja menjadikan aku seorang anak, seorang gadis, seorang wanita yang terlahir dalam keadaan islam di tengah keluarga islam dan lingkungan islam tetapi juga memberikan aku saudara-saudari seaqidah yang selalu menegarkanku diujung keruntuhan, menguatkanku ditiap kerapuhan dan menyemangatiku pada riak-riak kesakitan yang seringkali kuhadapi. Ada diantara mereka yang datang denga prinsip dan pemahaman Islam yang kukuh, ada yang masih setengah-setengah, ada pula yang tidak tahu sama sekali. Akan tetapi subahan Alloh, mereka yang setengah-setengah, mereka yang tidak tahu sama sekali kini telah menjadi melebihi orang yang ku anggap memiliki prinsip dan pemahaman kukuh dahulu. Berjuta harapan akan kebaikan masih memiliki ruang yang sangat luas di hati-hati mereka, dan itulah yang juga menjadi media kekuatan dari Alloh untukku.</div><div style="color: #274e13; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><br />
</div><div style="color: #274e13; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Nafas ketakutan di kala sholat, air mata setelah bermaksiat, kesedihan karena "kalah saing" beribadah kian hari kian nampak menggembung dari diri mereka. Kini, kesedihan mereka tak lagi karena tidak memiliki benda yang orang lain miliki, tidak lagi karena lebih kecilnya nilai di atas kertas dan di ujung pena manusia, akan tetapi kesedihan mereka lebih karena tidak memiliki apa yang Alloh Perintahkan, lebih kareana merasa tidak mendapatkan nilai yang meraka harapkan Alloh untuk berikan pada mereka. Hal apa saja itu? Keikhalasan dalam beribadah! Keistiqomahan! Ittiba'! Khusyu'! Rasa cinta karenaNya, dan semua hal yang berkaitan denganNya, berkaitan dengan Allohu Robbul 'Alamiin.</div><div style="color: #274e13; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><br />
</div><div style="color: #274e13; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Yaa Alloh, tiada lain kata yang bisa aku lantunkan selain 'Alhamdulillah 'alaa kulli haal", berkahilah mereka, berkahilah kami. Aku sangat mencintai mereka, karenanya tetapkanlah Kami di atas jalan lurus menujuMU. Aku sangat mencintaiku kejadianku, keislamanku, kemuslimahanku.. Karenanya tetapkan dan perbaikilah aku agar memiliki bekal untuk berjumpa denganMU. Aaamiin.</div><div style="color: #274e13; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><br />
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</div><div style="color: #274e13; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">19 Romadhon,</div><div style="color: #274e13; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">- Asiyah bint Muhammad Zainy</div>Asiyah bent Zainy ( Rini Rahayu)http://www.blogger.com/profile/13341567584093405272noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1095193332412070540.post-68130907716555764242010-08-27T09:17:00.001+07:002010-08-30T19:22:15.376+07:00Coconut Oil For Beautiful Skin and Hair<div class="articleContent" style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://produkkelapa.files.wordpress.com/2009/10/coconut_oil1.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://produkkelapa.files.wordpress.com/2009/10/coconut_oil1.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>Coconut <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/oil.cfm"><span class="tagLink">oil</span></a> is a natural and highly beneficial <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/oil.cfm"><span class="tagLink">oil</span></a> for healthy, youthful, disease-free <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/skin.cfm"><span class="tagLink">skin</span></a> and <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/hair.cfm"><span class="tagLink">hair</span></a>. When <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/coconut-oil.cfm"><span class="tagLink">coconut oil</span></a> is applied topically or taken internally, it helps to keep the <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/skin.cfm"><span class="tagLink">skin</span></a> soft and smooth and gives <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/hair.cfm"><span class="tagLink">hair</span></a> a beautiful shine, whilst at the same time reducing the effects of <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/aging.cfm"><span class="tagLink">aging</span></a> and preventing infections from entering the <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/skin.cfm"><span class="tagLink">skin</span></a>. Unlike conventional lotions and body care products, <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/coconut-oil.cfm"><span class="tagLink">coconut oil</span></a> is a natural product and is therefore free from harsh, potentially <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/toxic-chemicals.cfm"><span class="tagLink">toxic chemicals</span></a> and other <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/additives.cfm"><span class="tagLink">additives</span></a>. <b>Protects the Skin</b> <br />
The chemical structure of <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/coconut-oil.cfm"><span class="tagLink">coconut oil</span></a> consists of medium-chain <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/fatty-acids.cfm"><span class="tagLink">fatty acids</span></a>, which are small molecules, making it easily absorbed into the <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/skin.cfm"><span class="tagLink">skin</span></a> and <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/hair.cfm"><span class="tagLink">hair</span></a>. <br />
The <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/skin.cfm"><span class="tagLink">skin</span></a> consists of an outer protective layer that acts as a barrier, stopping harmful organisms from penetrating the <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/skin.cfm"><span class="tagLink">skin</span></a>. This is an <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/oil.cfm"><span class="tagLink">oil</span></a> called <i>sebum</i>, and is very important to <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/skin.cfm"><span class="tagLink">skin</span></a> <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/health.cfm"><span class="tagLink">health</span></a>. Like <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/coconut-oil.cfm"><span class="tagLink">coconut oil</span></a>, it contains medium-chain <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/fatty-acids.cfm"><span class="tagLink">fatty acids</span></a>, and helps to lubricate the <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/skin.cfm"><span class="tagLink">skin</span></a> and <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/hair.cfm"><span class="tagLink">hair</span></a>, and prevent fungal and bacterial infections from entering the body. <br />
This protective layer can be washed away by bathing or through broken <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/skin.cfm"><span class="tagLink">skin</span></a>. Applying <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/coconut-oil.cfm"><span class="tagLink">coconut oil</span></a> to the <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/skin.cfm"><span class="tagLink">skin</span></a> quickly re-establishes this natural chemical barrier, by increasing the number of <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/antimicrobial.cfm"><span class="tagLink">antimicrobial</span></a> <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/fatty-acids.cfm"><span class="tagLink">fatty acids</span></a> on the <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/skin.cfm"><span class="tagLink">skin</span></a> and therefore protecting it from infection.<br />
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<b><a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/anti-aging.cfm"><span class="tagLink">anti-aging</span></a></b> <br />
Oils have a visible effect on all tissues of the body, especially connective tissues. These tissues are found in the <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/skin.cfm"><span class="tagLink">skin</span></a>, <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/muscles.cfm"><span class="tagLink">muscles</span></a>, <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/bones.cfm"><span class="tagLink">bones</span></a>, nerves and internal organs, and support the framework for all body tissues, holding everything together. These give <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/skin.cfm"><span class="tagLink">skin</span></a> strength and elasticity. As the <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/skin.cfm"><span class="tagLink">skin</span></a> ages however, these tissues are attacked by <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/free-radicals.cfm"><span class="tagLink">free radicals</span></a>, which cause it to sag and wrinkle. <br />
The only way to fight this free radical damage is with <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/antioxidants.cfm"><span class="tagLink">antioxidants</span></a>, therefore it is essential to have plenty of <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/antioxidants.cfm"><span class="tagLink">antioxidants</span></a> in our cells and tissues to protect them. The number of <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/antioxidants.cfm"><span class="tagLink">antioxidants</span></a> in our tissues is largely determined by the nutrients in our <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/diet.cfm"><span class="tagLink">diet</span></a>. However, <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/coconut-oil.cfm"><span class="tagLink">coconut oil</span></a> has also been found to be the ideal lotion for protecting it against damage, promoting <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/healing.cfm"><span class="tagLink">healing</span></a> and giving it a healthy, soft, youthful appearance.<br />
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<b>Moisturizing</b> <br />
Pure <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/coconut-oil.cfm"><span class="tagLink">coconut oil</span></a> is an excellent natural <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/skin.cfm"><span class="tagLink">skin</span></a> moisturizer. It prevents free radical formation and the damage it causes. It helps prevent the <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/skin.cfm"><span class="tagLink">skin</span></a> from developing blemishes causes by <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/aging.cfm"><span class="tagLink">aging</span></a> and other factors. It is absorbed into the <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/skin.cfm"><span class="tagLink">skin</span></a> and keeps connective tissue strong and supple so that <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/skin.cfm"><span class="tagLink">skin</span></a> doesn't age prematurely. <br />
This wonderful <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/oil.cfm"><span class="tagLink">oil</span></a> also makes an ideal ointment for the relief of dry, rough and flaky <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/skin.cfm"><span class="tagLink">skin</span></a>. It helps to remove the layer of dead <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/skin.cfm"><span class="tagLink">skin</span></a> cells on the outer surface of the <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/skin.cfm"><span class="tagLink">skin</span></a>, leaving it smoother, evenly textured and moisturized. <br />
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<b>Healing and Repair</b> <br />
Coconut <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/oil.cfm"><span class="tagLink">oil</span></a> has been found to help stimulate <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/healing.cfm"><span class="tagLink">healing</span></a> and repair. Some of its reported <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/health.cfm"><span class="tagLink">health</span></a> benefits for <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/skin.cfm"><span class="tagLink">skin</span></a> include helping with: <br />
<ul><li>Inflammatory conditions like psoriasis </li>
<li>Acne </li>
<li>Fungal infections like athlete's foot </li>
<li>Sunburn </li>
<li>Healing cuts, bruises and sprains, and reducing scarring </li>
<li>Insect bites</li>
</ul><b><span class="titleHeadline">How to Use <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/coconut.cfm"><span class="tagLink">coconut</span></a> Oil</span></b> <br />
To use <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/coconut-oil.cfm"><span class="tagLink">coconut oil</span></a> on the <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/skin.cfm"><span class="tagLink">skin</span></a>, massage in a small amount and reapply it often. The <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/oil.cfm"><span class="tagLink">oil</span></a> is quickly absorbed into the <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/skin.cfm"><span class="tagLink">skin</span></a> and doesn't leave a greasy film like commercial lotions and oils do. <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/coconut-oil.cfm"><span class="tagLink">Coconut oil</span></a> will gradually soften the <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/skin.cfm"><span class="tagLink">skin</span></a> with regular use, removing dead layers, and encourage the growth of new, healthier tissue. <br />
For severely dried or cracked <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/skin.cfm"><span class="tagLink">skin</span></a>, apply a liberal amount of <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/coconut-oil.cfm"><span class="tagLink">coconut oil</span></a> to the affected area, wrap it loosely in plastic or a towel, and leave it on overnight or at least a few hours. Repeat this process until the condition improves. <br />
Coconut <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/oil.cfm"><span class="tagLink">oil</span></a> can be used on the entire body. Massage it into the <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/skin.cfm"><span class="tagLink">skin</span></a> for best results. It can also be used on the face to improve complexion and smooth out any blemishes.<br />
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<b><span class="titleHeadline">Hair Care</span></b> <br />
Coconut <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/oil.cfm"><span class="tagLink">oil</span></a> makes a great <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/hair.cfm"><span class="tagLink">hair</span></a> conditioner. It gives <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/hair.cfm"><span class="tagLink">hair</span></a> a healthy shine, is great for the scalp and helps to control <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/dandruff.cfm"><span class="tagLink">dandruff</span></a>. It helps to reestablish a healthy <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/skin.cfm"><span class="tagLink">skin</span></a> environment by replacing natural oils that may have been washed away. <br />
Studies have shown that using <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/coconut-oil.cfm"><span class="tagLink">coconut oil</span></a> on the <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/hair.cfm"><span class="tagLink">hair</span></a> can help prevent combing damage and improve its overall <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/health.cfm"><span class="tagLink">health</span></a> and appearance. One study, in particular, found that compared to sunflower and <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/mineral.cfm"><span class="tagLink">mineral</span></a> oils, <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/coconut-oil.cfm"><span class="tagLink">coconut oil</span></a> was the only one that reduced <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/protein.cfm"><span class="tagLink">protein</span></a> loss for both undamaged and damaged <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/hair.cfm"><span class="tagLink">hair</span></a> when used both pre-wash and post-wash. The authors explained this difference was due to the composition of the oils. <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/coconut-oil.cfm"><span class="tagLink">coconut oil</span></a>, being rich in medium-chain triglycerides is able to penetrate inside the <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/hair.cfm"><span class="tagLink">hair</span></a> shaft, protecting it from <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/protein.cfm"><span class="tagLink">protein</span></a> loss as well as giving it body. The other two oils have a different composition and therefore have no positive impact on <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/protein.cfm"><span class="tagLink">protein</span></a> loss. Only <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/coconut-oil.cfm"><span class="tagLink">coconut oil</span></a> can protect the <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/hair.cfm"><span class="tagLink">hair</span></a> and prevent <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/hair.cfm"><span class="tagLink">hair</span></a> damage, so it is clearly the best <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/oil.cfm"><span class="tagLink">oil</span></a> to use for <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/hair.cfm"><span class="tagLink">hair</span></a>. <br />
To use, massage warm <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/coconut-oil.cfm"><span class="tagLink">coconut oil</span></a> into the <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/hair.cfm"><span class="tagLink">hair</span></a>, leave in on overnight, and wash it out in the morning. For a more intensive treatment, soak the <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/hair.cfm"><span class="tagLink">hair</span></a> thoroughly in the <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/oil.cfm"><span class="tagLink">oil</span></a> for an hour or two, before washing.<br />
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<b><span class="titleHeadline">Types of <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/coconut.cfm"><span class="tagLink">coconut</span></a> Oil</span></b> <br />
There are two types of <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/coconut.cfm"><span class="tagLink">coconut</span></a> oil: <b>processed</b> and <b>virgin</b>. The difference between the oils depends on the amount of processing the <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/oil.cfm"><span class="tagLink">oil</span></a> undergoes and the type of <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/coconut.cfm"><span class="tagLink">coconut</span></a> used. Processed <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/oil.cfm"><span class="tagLink">oil</span></a> is made from dried coconuts and has usually undergone extensive processing such as refining, bleaching and deodorizing, and is the type typically used in foods and cosmetics. <br />
"Virgin" signifies an <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/oil.cfm"><span class="tagLink">oil</span></a> that has undergone less refining with lower temperatures and without chemicals. It is also made from fresh coconuts, and retains its naturally occurring <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/phytochemicals.cfm"><span class="tagLink">phytochemicals</span></a> (plant chemicals). Virgin <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/coconut-oil.cfm"><span class="tagLink">coconut oil</span></a> usually has a mild <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/coconut.cfm"><span class="tagLink">coconut</span></a> flavor and aroma compared to more refined oils, which have less taste, smell and are colorless. <br />
Regardless of the method of processing, however, both oils contain essentially the same amount of health-promoting medium-chain <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/fatty-acids.cfm"><span class="tagLink">fatty acids</span></a>. These <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/fatty-acids.cfm"><span class="tagLink">fatty acids</span></a> are very resistant to heat and are not harmed by processing, even at high temperatures. Therefore, all types of <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/coconut.cfm"><span class="tagLink">coconut</span></a> oils are considered healthy oils. <br />
Pure <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/coconut-oil.cfm"><span class="tagLink">coconut oil</span></a> should be a crystal clear liquid in warm conditions, and becomes a hard, white solid in cooler climates. This process does not affect the quality of the <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/oil.cfm"><span class="tagLink">oil</span></a>, and solidified <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/coconut-oil.cfm"><span class="tagLink">coconut oil</span></a> quickly becomes liquid when the container is immersed in hot <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/water.cfm"><span class="tagLink">water</span></a> or warmed in the hands.<br />
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Source: www.healthymuslim.com </div>Asiyah bent Zainy ( Rini Rahayu)http://www.blogger.com/profile/13341567584093405272noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1095193332412070540.post-31463171719602351352010-08-27T09:14:00.001+07:002010-11-17T19:00:43.711+07:00Mother's Diet Affects Newborn Allergy Risk<div class="articleContent" style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.diseasencure.com/pregnancy.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em; text-align: justify;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://www.diseasencure.com/pregnancy.jpg" width="253" /></a></div><div style="text-align: justify;">Eating lots of <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/vegetables.cfm"><span class="tagLink">vegetables</span></a> and fruits during <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/pregnancy.cfm"><span class="tagLink">pregnancy</span></a> is associated with lowering the chance of having a baby with certain <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/allergies.cfm"><span class="tagLink">allergies</span></a>, study findings from Japan suggest. The study found that babies born to women who ate high amounts of green and yellow fruits and <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/vegetables.cfm"><span class="tagLink">vegetables</span></a>, and those rich in beta carotene, had a reduced risk of being born with <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/eczema.cfm"><span class="tagLink">eczema</span></a>, a condition that cause the <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/skin.cfm"><span class="tagLink">skin</span></a> to become itchy, dry, reddened and cracked. </div><div style="text-align: justify;">Furthermore, foods high in <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/vitamin-e.cfm"><span class="tagLink">Vitamin E</span></a>, found in some green <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/vegetables.cfm"><span class="tagLink">vegetables</span></a>, were similarly found to lessen the risk of having a wheezy infant.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
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</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><b>Study Details</b> </div><div style="text-align: justify;">Researchers evaluated vegetable and <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/fruit.cfm"><span class="tagLink">fruit</span></a> intake during <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/pregnancy.cfm"><span class="tagLink">pregnancy</span></a> of 763 women and their offspring's early-age <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/eczema.cfm"><span class="tagLink">eczema</span></a> or allergic wheeze. </div><div style="text-align: justify;">The women were 30 years old on average and about 17 weeks pregnant when they reported personal and medical history. When their babies were between 16 and 24 months old, the women provided birth and <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/breastfeeding.cfm"><span class="tagLink">breastfeeding</span></a> history, number of older siblings, and exposure to smoke.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
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</div><div style="text-align: justify;">The team found that 21 percent of the youngsters wheezed or had a <i>"whistling in the chest in the last 12 months,"</i> and fewer than 19 percent had <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/eczema.cfm"><span class="tagLink">eczema</span></a>. </div><div style="text-align: justify;">According to the investigators, moms who ate greater amounts of green and yellow <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/vegetables.cfm"><span class="tagLink">vegetables</span></a>, citrus fruits, or beta carotene while pregnant were less likely to have an infant with <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/eczema.cfm"><span class="tagLink">eczema</span></a>.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
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</div><div style="text-align: justify;">For example, after allowing for other <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/eczema.cfm"><span class="tagLink">eczema</span></a> risk factors, <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/eczema.cfm"><span class="tagLink">eczema</span></a> was more common among infants of moms who ate the least versus the most green and yellow <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/vegetables.cfm"><span class="tagLink">vegetables</span></a> - 54 and 32 infants, respectively.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
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</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Likewise, higher intake of <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/vitamin-e.cfm"><span class="tagLink">Vitamin E</span></a> during <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/pregnancy.cfm"><span class="tagLink">pregnancy</span></a> was associated a reduced likelihood of having a wheezy infant.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
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</div><div style="text-align: justify;">The researchers said that increasing intake of green and yellow <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/vegetables.cfm"><span class="tagLink">vegetables</span></a>, citrus fruits, and <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/antioxidants.cfm"><span class="tagLink">antioxidants</span></a> such as <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/beta-carotene.cfm"><span class="tagLink">Beta-carotene</span></a> and <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/vitamin-e.cfm"><span class="tagLink">Vitamin E</span></a> among pregnant women <i>"deserves further investigation as measures that would possibly be effective in the prevention of allergic disorders in the offspring."</i></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
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<div style="text-align: justify;">This study supports previous and on-going research that eating foods rich in vitamin and <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/minerals.cfm"><span class="tagLink">minerals</span></a>, like those found in fruits and <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/vegetables.cfm"><span class="tagLink">vegetables</span></a>, during <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/pregnancy.cfm"><span class="tagLink">pregnancy</span></a> can go a long way in preventing children from developing <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/allergies.cfm"><span class="tagLink">allergies</span></a>.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
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</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Breastfeeding is another way to ensure your baby receives the most wholesome <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/nutrition.cfm"><span class="tagLink">nutrition</span></a> possible. Breast-fed babies are typically born with fewer or no <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/allergies.cfm"><span class="tagLink">allergies</span></a> when compared to their formula-fed counterparts. Breast <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/milk.cfm"><span class="tagLink">milk</span></a> contains all the required nutrients crucial for healthy growth and offers protection against infections and diseases, which bottle-feeding does not provide.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
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</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Research Paper Details: </div><div style="text-align: justify;">Miyake Y, Sasaki S, Tanaka K, Hirota Y. <b>Consumption of <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/vegetables.cfm"><span class="tagLink">vegetables</span></a>, <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/fruit.cfm"><span class="tagLink">fruit</span></a>, and <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/antioxidants.cfm"><span class="tagLink">antioxidants</span></a> during <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/pregnancy.cfm"><span class="tagLink">pregnancy</span></a> and wheeze and <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/eczema.cfm"><span class="tagLink">eczema</span></a> in infants.</b> <i>Allergy 2010. </i></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><i>Source: www.healthymuslim.com </i> </div></div>Asiyah bent Zainy ( Rini Rahayu)http://www.blogger.com/profile/13341567584093405272noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1095193332412070540.post-16670151889639314102010-08-27T09:12:00.000+07:002010-08-27T09:12:15.443+07:00Vitamin D Protects the Health of Mother and Baby During PregnancyMaintaining optimal <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/vitamin-d.cfm"><span class="tagLink">vitamin D</span></a> levels is one of the most important strategies pregnant women should implement to keep both themselves and their new babies healthy. <br />
Researchers in Britain have concluded pregnant women should be advised to take <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/vitamin-d.cfm"><span class="tagLink">vitamin D</span></a>, saying that there is a "strong case" to support the vitamin's benefits. <br />
The paper says there is growing evidence linking <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/vitamin-d.cfm"><span class="tagLink">vitamin D</span></a> deficiency to <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/health.cfm"><span class="tagLink">health</span></a> problems for pregnant women and newborn babies, and it will reduce the risk of diseases such as infantile hypocalcaemia and rickets. <br />
An author of the study, said: <i><b>"The incidence of <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/vitamin-d.cfm"><span class="tagLink">vitamin D</span></a> deficiency in pregnant women in Britain is unacceptably high, especially during winter and spring. "This is compounded by a lack of exposure to <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/sunlight.cfm"><span class="tagLink">sunlight</span></a> and the limitations of an average <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/diet.cfm"><span class="tagLink">diet</span></a> to meet the optimal need. </b></i><br />
<i><b>"In the most severe cases, maternal <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/vitamin-d.cfm"><span class="tagLink">vitamin D</span></a> deficiency can be life threatening to a newborn. We believe that the routine provision of a daily supplement throughout <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/pregnancy.cfm"><span class="tagLink">pregnancy</span></a> would significantly decrease the number of mothers who are clearly <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/vitamin-d.cfm"><span class="tagLink">vitamin D</span></a> deficient, reducing related serious risks to their babies."</b> </i> <br />
The study found that: <br />
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<ul><li>Mothers who took 4,000 IU's (ten times the RDA of 400 IU) of <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/vitamin-d.cfm"><span class="tagLink">vitamin D</span></a> during <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/pregnancy.cfm"><span class="tagLink">pregnancy</span></a> had their risk of premature birth reduced by half; </li>
<li>Premature babies born to women taking high doses of <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/vitamin-d.cfm"><span class="tagLink">vitamin D</span></a> were reduced by half at both 32 and 37 weeks; </li>
<li>There were also fewer babies who were born "small for dates"; </li>
<li>Women taking high doses of <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/vitamin-d.cfm"><span class="tagLink">vitamin D</span></a> had a 25 percent reduction in infections, particularly respiratory infections such as <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/colds.cfm"><span class="tagLink">colds</span></a> and flu; </li>
<li>The "core morbidities of pregnancy" were reduced by 30 percent in the women who took the high-dose <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/vitamin-d.cfm"><span class="tagLink">vitamin D</span></a> (including <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/diabetes.cfm"><span class="tagLink">diabetes</span></a>, high <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/blood-pressure.cfm"><span class="tagLink">blood pressure</span></a>, and pre-eclampsia - a potentially deadly increase in <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/blood-pressure.cfm"><span class="tagLink">blood pressure</span></a> and fluid); </li>
<li>Babies getting the highest amounts of <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/vitamin-d.cfm"><span class="tagLink">vitamin D</span></a> after birth had fewer <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/colds.cfm"><span class="tagLink">colds</span></a> and less <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/eczema.cfm"><span class="tagLink">eczema</span></a>. </li>
</ul>As a result, the researchers recommended that all mothers optimize their <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/vitamin-d.cfm"><span class="tagLink">vitamin D</span></a> levels during <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/pregnancy.cfm"><span class="tagLink">pregnancy</span></a>, especially in the winter months, to safeguard their babies' <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/health.cfm"><span class="tagLink">health</span></a>. <br />
<b>Vitamin D Is a Super-Nutrient</b> <br />
Vitamin D is an essential nutrient not only for healthy <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/bones.cfm"><span class="tagLink">bones</span></a> and <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/teeth.cfm"><span class="tagLink">teeth</span></a>, but high levels of this nutrient in the body also strengthen the <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/immune-system.cfm"><span class="tagLink">immune system</span></a> and lead to substantially fewer <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/colds.cfm"><span class="tagLink">colds</span></a>, <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/flu.cfm"><span class="tagLink">flu</span></a>, and other <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/viral-infections.cfm"><span class="tagLink">viral infections</span></a>. <br />
Insufficient levels of <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/vitamin-d.cfm"><span class="tagLink">vitamin D</span></a> are linked to virtually every degenerative disease including <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/cancer.cfm"><span class="tagLink">cancer</span></a>, <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/heart-disease.cfm"><span class="tagLink">heart disease</span></a>, <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/diabetes.cfm"><span class="tagLink">diabetes</span></a>, chronic <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/inflammation.cfm"><span class="tagLink">inflammation</span></a>, as well as <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/depression.cfm"><span class="tagLink">depression</span></a> and autoimmune diseases. <br />
Vitamin D is produced in the <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/skin.cfm"><span class="tagLink">skin</span></a> when it is exposed to <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/sunlight.cfm"><span class="tagLink">sunlight</span></a> and is also found in some foods like oily <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/fish.cfm"><span class="tagLink">fish</span></a>, liver and <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/eggs.cfm"><span class="tagLink">eggs</span></a>. <br />
People with dark-colored <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/skin.cfm"><span class="tagLink">skin</span></a> synthesize less <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/vitamin-d.cfm"><span class="tagLink">vitamin D</span></a> on exposure to <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/sunlight.cfm"><span class="tagLink">sunlight</span></a> than those with light-colored <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/skin.cfm"><span class="tagLink">skin</span></a>, therefore they will need more time in the sun to produce the same amount of <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/vitamin-d.cfm"><span class="tagLink">vitamin D</span></a>. The risk of <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/vitamin-d.cfm"><span class="tagLink">vitamin D</span></a> deficiency is particularly high in dark-skinned people who live in northern latitudes where there is less <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/sunlight.cfm"><span class="tagLink">sunlight</span></a>, and on the elderly, because they have reduced capacity to synthesize <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/vitamin-d.cfm"><span class="tagLink">vitamin D</span></a> in <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/skin.cfm"><span class="tagLink">skin</span></a> when exposed to <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/sunlight.cfm"><span class="tagLink">sunlight</span></a>. <br />
Research Paper Details: <br />
Hyppönen E, Boucher BJ. <b>Avoidance of <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/vitamin-d.cfm"><span class="tagLink">vitamin D</span></a> deficiency in <a class="tagLink" href="http://www.healthymuslim.com/tags/pregnancy.cfm"><span class="tagLink">pregnancy</span></a> in the United Kingdom: the case for a unified approach in National policy.</b> <i>Br J Nutr. 2010 Aug;104(3):309-14. </i><br />
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<i>source: www.healthymuslim.com </i>Asiyah bent Zainy ( Rini Rahayu)http://www.blogger.com/profile/13341567584093405272noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1095193332412070540.post-10668642875187779482010-08-27T08:40:00.001+07:002011-01-20T10:12:54.784+07:003 Ladies talk about using Niqab, Hijab or Nothing<div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Bismillahirrohmanirrohim, Alhamdulillah Alloh is still giving me time to enjoy this morning freshness,</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Well, 2 days ago i watched a video on youtube titles "Hijab, Niqab, or Nothing". This video really inspired me and viewed me on how to answer people questions when they will ask me about hijab or niqab simply. If you wanna watch that video, just open <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eXzUuKdfnRE">this site</a>, tafadhol:</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">==================================================================</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><br />
</span></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Hijab (حجاب) is the Arabic term for "cover" (noun), based on the root حجب meaning "to veil, to cover (verb), to screen, to shelter". In some Arabic-speaking countries & Western countries, the word hijab primarily refers to women's head and body covering, but in Islamic scholarship, hijab is given the wider meaning of modesty, privacy, and morality.</span></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><br />
</span></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">The word used in the Qur'an for a HEADSCARF or VEIL is khimār (خمار). QUR'AN The Qur'an instructs Muslims to dress in a modest fashion. Surah an-Nur ayah 31 states: "And say to the believing women that they cast down their looks & GUARD their PRIVATE PARTS & do NOT DISPLAY their ORNAMENTS except what appears thereof, & let them WEAR their HEAD-COVERINGS (khimars) OVER their BOSOMS (jaybs), & NOT DISPLAY their ornaments EXCEPT to their husbands or their fathers, or the fathers of their husbands, or their sons, or the sons of their husbands, or their brothers, or their brothers' sons, or their sisters' sons, or their women, or those whom their right hands possess, or the male servants not having need (of women), or the children who have not attained knowledge of what is hidden of women; & let them not strike their feet so that what they hide of their ornaments may be known; & turn to Allah all of you, O believers! so that you may be successful.(Qur'an 24:31) </span></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><br />
</span></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">In the following verse, Muslim women are asked to DRAW their jalābib (when they go out), as a measure to DISTINGUISH themselves FROM OTHER, so that they are NOT HARASSED. "Those who harass believing men & believing women unjustifiably shall bear the guilt of slander & a grievous sin. O Prophet! Enjoin your wives, your daughters, & the wives of true believers to DRAW their JILBAB OVER them [when they go out]. That is MORE PROPER, so that they may be DISTINGUISHED & NOT be HARASSED. God is ever forgiving & merciful. If the hypocrites & those who have the ailment [of jealousy] in their hearts & the scandal mongers of Madinah do not desist, We will rouse you against them, & their days in that city will be numbered. Cursed be they; wherever found, they would be seized & put to death. (Qur'an 33:58-61) </span></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><br />
</span></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">HADITH The hadith (Arabic plural ahādīth) are traditions concerning the practices of the early Muslim community. The Arabic word jilbab is translated as "cloak" in the following passage. Aisha reported that Muhammad's wives went out at nighttime to open fields in the outskirts of Medina to relieve themselves. Umar bin Khattab said 'Muhammad, ask your ladies to observe veil,'[citation needed] Narrated Aisha, Ummul Mu'minin: The Prophet said: Allah does NOT ACCEPT the PRAYER of a WOMAN who has REACHED PUBERTY UNLESS she WEARS a VEIL. (Sunnan Abu Dawud 2:641) </span></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><br />
</span></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Narrated Aisha, Ummul Mu'minin: Asma bint Abu Bakr, entered upon the Apostle of Allah wearing thin clothes. The Apostle of Allah turned his attention from her. He said: O Asma', WHEN a WOMAN REACHES the AGE of MENSTRUATION, it does NOT suit her that she DISPLAYS her parts of body EXCEPT this & this, & he pointed to her FACE & HANDS. (Sunnan Abu Dawud 32:4092) </span></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><br />
</span></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Narrated Umm Salama Hind bint Abi Umayya, Ummul Mu'minin: WHEN the VERSE: "That they should cast their outer garments over their persons" was REVEALED, the women of Ansar CAME OUT as if they had crows OVER their HEADS by WEARING outer GARMENTS. (Sunnan Abu Dawud 32:4090) Narrated Safiya bint Shaiba: 'Aisha used to say: "WHEN (the VERSE): "They should draw their veils over their necks & bosoms," was REVEALED, (the ladies) cut their waist sheets at the edges & COVERED their FACES with the cut pieces." (Sahih Bukhari 6:60:282, Sunnan Abu Dawud 32:4091)</span></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><br />
</span></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Narrated Anas ibn Malik: I know (about) the Hijab (the order of veiling of women) more than anybody else. Ubay ibn Ka'b used to ask me about it. Allah's Apostle became the bridegroom of Zaynab bint Jahsh whom he married at Medina. After the sun had risen high in the sky, the Prophet invited the people to a meal. Allah's Apostle remained sitting & some people remained sitting with him after the other guests had left. Then Allah's Apostle got up & went away, & I too, followed him till he reached the door of 'Aisha's room. Then he thought that the people must have left the place by then, so he returned & I also returned with him. Behold, the people were still sitting at their places. So he went back again for the second time, & I went along with him too. </span></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><br />
</span></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">When we reached the door of 'Aisha's room, he returned & I also returned with him to see that the people had left. Thereupon the Prophet hung a curtain between me & him & the Verse regarding the order for (veiling of women) Hijab was REVEALED. (Bukhari 7:65:375, Sahih Muslim 8:3334)</span></div></div>Asiyah bent Zainy ( Rini Rahayu)http://www.blogger.com/profile/13341567584093405272noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1095193332412070540.post-22430084219781591072010-08-25T12:04:00.000+07:002010-08-25T12:31:27.107+07:00Asiyah bint Muzaheem<div style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Bismillah,</div><div style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">This afternoon, i am remembering of a woman i really proud to <b>"Asiyah bint Muzaheem".</b></div><div style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">I inspired of sufferings that fir'aun did to her, these are below some stories and things relates to her and belongs to her, i hope you enjoy and could take a wisdom (ibroh) from theese:</div><div style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><br />
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</span></div><div style="color: #990000; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Verses in Al-Qur'an narrates Asiyah:</b></span></div><div style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">"And Allah sets forth, as an example to those who believe the wife of Pharaoh: Behold she said: "O my Lord! Build for me, in nearness to Thee, a mansion in the Garden, and save me from Pharaoh and his doings, and save me from those that do wrong" (QS. At-Tahrim: 11)</div><div style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">"Then the people of Pharaoh picked him up (from the river): (It was intended) that (Moses) should be to them an adversary and a cause of sorrow: for Pharaoh and Haman and (all) their hosts were men of sin. The wife of Pharaoh said: "(Here is) joy of the eye, for me and for thee: slay him not. It may be that he will be use to us, or we may adopt him as a son." And they perceived not (what they were doing)"</div><div style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">(QS. Al-Qoshosh: 8-9)</div><div style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><br />
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</div><div style="color: #990000; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><b><span style="font-size: small;">Rosululloh Peace and Bless upon Him narrated:</span></b></div><div style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">"Allah's Apostle said, "Many amongst men reached (the level of) perfection but none amongst the women reached this level except Asia, Pharaoh's wife, and Mary, the daughter of 'Imran. And no doubt, the superiority of 'Aisha to other women is like the superiority of Tharid (i.e. a meat and bread dish) to other meals."</div>Asiyah bent Zainy ( Rini Rahayu)http://www.blogger.com/profile/13341567584093405272noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1095193332412070540.post-89205930586849790322010-08-25T11:25:00.000+07:002010-08-25T12:31:25.648+07:00I really wanna shout that "I am proud born as a moeslem woman"<div style="color: #990000; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">If you ask,</div><div style="color: #990000; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">why do us dress this way?</div><div style="color: #990000; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Dress like snack covered?</div><div style="color: #990000; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Dress like something burried that walk on earth?</div><div style="color: #990000; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Masya Alloh, this is me, this is my character, this is my personality, this is the way i am, this is how Alloh The Almighty asks us to use, asks us to become, asks us to be.</div><div style="color: #990000; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">i want to shout <b>"I really proud to have that i have been a moeslem women"</b></div><div style="color: #990000; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><br />
</div><div style="color: #990000; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">if you ask me, what does thing that most impresses you?</div><div style="color: #990000; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">without wasting time, i'll really shout "i impress that i born as a moeslem woman",</div><div style="color: #990000; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">i am not a beautiful one, i am not so clever, i am not rich, i am not a good character woman,</div><div style="color: #990000; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">but i know i have to try best in my life, and what i use what am i doing right now are kind of the best things, the best ways for me in how to perform, to appear, to present my self, this is the freedom, this is heaven, this is wonderful, this is miracle, you know that! that i really feel happy to be like this. My mother, my father, and all the people blessed by Alloh who know about how moeslim woman should covered their selves by hijab always support me.</div><div style="color: #990000; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><br />
</div><div style="color: #990000; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">this is a little paragraph of what i am feeling now,</div><div style="color: #990000; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">i wrote this article about my opinion after hearing a girls opinion about hijab,</div><div style="color: #990000; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><br />
</div><div style="color: #990000; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">May Alloh gives me and all moeslems woman powers from Him that will always strange us in using this hijab, and becoming like this.</div><div style="color: #990000; font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><br />
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